I hate my life

@OP... hang in there, a lot of us go through these phases, but as cliche as it sounds and as other posters said, if you are at the bottom, the only way is up. If the stuff that are bothering you is stuff that can change (easy or hard changes), then you are able to make it better. When you feel like this, you need to stop, step back and just recollect, and tackle one thing at a time, before you know it, the weight on your shoulders gets dropped off bit by bit. As someone mentioned, find some positive things to do, hobby, gym, study something new through UNISA, job hunt and try to convince your SO that you guys might need counselling and so forth.

You also of course have your child if I understand it correctly, something by the way that a lot of people would give anything for, and I also believe (teens and mood swings and stuff aside) that they will always love you and care for you. Talk to people and try talking rationally to the people that causes your hurt as well, stuff like jobs and finances etc are usually supplementary and these types of feelings are invariably linked largely to someone in your life. TALK TO THEM!!!!!!

Good Luck.
 
The_Unnamed said:
Its not a game of Guess Who...

EDIT: I think it might be blu...

EDIT2: Plus STS has a lot of people here who love him including me!! :love:
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AND I LOVE YOUUUUUU!!!! see OP, we need to know your nick to share fond memories

EDIT: AND YOU TOO WALLSEND! :D :D :D
 
how dare you come here and declare that you wish to die when there are people out there hanging on to their last breathe knowing that any minute they will die because of some incurable disease they have no control over.

you have choices in life to make things better for yourself. the choices are that you exclude the friends who are not worth being friends, be a father to your child, find a job where you are satisfied in etc. life is about choices, you and you alone are the only one who can decide what choices you make and move forward.
 
transfattyacid said:
You are the worst kind. You are on here every day whining about your life and asking advice. But the moment that someone else cries for help all you do is shout troll.
Well done miss ****ing perfect. Well ****ing done.


My SO of almost a decade is no longer interested.
I am stuck in a dead end unfulfilling job.
I have been slumping into a depression for months now which most likely has caused me to fail as a parent.
The last group of people I thought I had any connection with is making fun of me and calling for myself to "do it".

Yes, I am most likely not able to take my own life, I will even fail at that. It does not change the fact that I feel that death is the only solution.

But thank you all not not ****ing being there when one of your own needed you.
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Why not post from your real account? If you do indeed have a connection with people here then they would probably give you better advice if they knew who you were. I mean you can't expect people to take somebody with 3 posts very seriously.
 
Celine said:
how dare you come here and declare that you wish to die when there are people out there hanging on to their last breathe knowing that any minute they will die because of some incurable disease they have no control over.

you have choices in life to make things better for yourself. the choices are that you exclude the friends who are not worth being friends, be a father to your child, find a job where you are satisfied in etc. life is about choices, you and you alone are the only one who can decide what choices you make and move forward.
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Uh-oh, here comes Celine with the "but there are people with cancer and other incurable diseases out there, you ungrateful SOB" line :erm:
 
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