I'm cheating on my girlfriend.

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miz_pimp said:
It's the one thing you have that when lost, you can never get back. It's a sign of purity, and that you have taken care of yourself. Why is it necessary to sleep with every guy you're dating? A relationship is also more than just sex.

Like I said before, to each their own.
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You don't get your milk teeth back either. Why do you want it back? Why cling to something that even you can't explain the significance of? Losing your virginity doesn't suddenly make you a ho.
 
****, reading threads like this one helps explain why aids is still such a problem in this day and age... People bragging about how many partners they've had, can't keep it in the pants for 5 minutes... :thumbdown:
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
You don't get your milk teeth back either. Why do you want it back? Why cling to something that even you can't explain the significance of? Losing your virginity doesn't suddenly make you a ho.
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No, it doesn't, unless you can't keep it in your pants :D

Well, everyone has a choice, and their own opinion about whether their virginity is important to them; mine was to me, but obviously, not everyone feels the same way I do, and that's fine too. It just bothers me when a woman who chooses to wait, is seen as a prude, or whatever. There just needs to be respect for her wishes, that's all.
 
miz_pimp said:
No, it doesn't, unless you can't keep it in your pants :D

Well, everyone has a choice, and their own opinion about whether their virginity is important to them; mine was to me, but obviously, not everyone feels the same way I do, and that's fine too. It just bothers me when a woman who chooses to wait, is seen as a prude, or whatever. There just needs to be respect for her wishes, that's all.
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Beautiful posts :)
 
How do you feel when you find out that you are being cheated on by someone you genuinely love?
 
I've falled irrevocably in love with this other girl.

I don't feel anything when I kiss my girlfriend anymore.

I know my girlfriend is the better choice between the two of them and I know the other girl would probably have no issues cheating again in the future, but I can't help what I feel.

I'll pour my heart out to this girl, probably to no avail. I'll break up with my girlfriend. Probably be alone after it all, but who's to say I deserve any better. That's not me asking for pity though, **** pity, I want the other girl. I've made up my mind.
 
confused nerd said:
I've falled irrevocably in love with this other girl.

I don't feel anything when I kiss my girlfriend anymore.

I know my girlfriend is the better choice between the two of them and I know the other girl would probably have no issues cheating again in the future, but I can't help what I feel.

I'll pour my heart out to this girl, probably to no avail. I'll break up with my girlfriend. Probably be alone after it all, but who's to say I deserve any better. That's not me asking for pity though, **** pity, I want the other girl. I've made up my mind.
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If anything at least you're trying to make it right. Good on you
 
It's so hard to form an opinion on the issue of sex before marriage.

Disregarding the religious aspect, one part of me says that it doens't really matter, it's just sex etc.
Then another part of me puts myself in the shoes of someone who marries someone else and has to live their whole lives knowing that the person they married has been intimate with someone else before them. And that just freaks me out.
 
confused nerd said:
I've falled irrevocably in love with this other girl.

I don't feel anything when I kiss my girlfriend anymore.

I know my girlfriend is the better choice between the two of them and I know the other girl would probably have no issues cheating again in the future, but I can't help what I feel.

I'll pour my heart out to this girl, probably to no avail. I'll break up with my girlfriend. Probably be alone after it all, but who's to say I deserve any better. That's not me asking for pity though, **** pity, I want the other girl. I've made up my mind.
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Can't say I have much sympathy with your situation. You should lose everything. You took something from that 18 year old which she probably could have given to someone who would have really appreciated and cherished the gift. You my dear sir are an ass-hole. A douche-bag. A sad excuse for a man. You have probably never been on the receiving end of the consequences of cheating bastards and their actions. I have a half-sister simply because my dad couldn't keep it in his pants either and we all suffered for it. He didn't think it was big deal either. Can't believe these girls actually feel you are worth the time.:sick:
 
confused nerd said:
I wish I understood life.

I've been single for almost a year, about two months ago I was so lonely I thought to myself, 'damn I don't care how she looks I just want a girlfriend.' I want someone to spend my time and energy on. Someone to give all my emotion and love.

And then I actually found someone, the perfect candidate for a long and meaningful relationship. 18 years old, pretty, a little insecure and a virgin. I swept her off her feet, told her what she wanted to hear. I took her virginity and believe me it meant a lot to her. She is absolutely madly in love with me. I am not in love with her, I think it's nice that's she's so serious about me and I love the fact that I actually have someone in my life again.

But... Jesus. I swear, as soon as you get a girlfriend you give off a pheromone or something that attracts girls. Within the first 3 days of me getting a girlfriend an old highschool friend confronted me saying she wants me and she kept inviting me over. I was at the time still very much fresh in love with my girlfriend so I declined.

That's not where it stopped though, work colleages I had known before starting hitting on me. And this is where I folded. I cheated on my girlfriend with a girl from work. This girl was extremely sexual, that's what attracted me to her. I could not pass up such an opportunity. But I don't know her intentions yet, I don't know if she would want a relationship with me.

I could not fathom that so many people would want me at one time, I mean... me? Nerdy little old me that had been single for almost a year? Nerdy little old me that yearned for a girlfriend so long? Now I'm cheating on one? What the actual ****? I look at myself in the mirror and think why, I don't even find myself that attractive, what is it about me that would lead to such a sudden interest?

Heh, then there's more. I confide in a friend about my current situation and she tells me, 'leave both of them and take me instead'. She said it jokingly, but she meant it. I asked her if she really wants to complicate my life even more and she said no, she'd only go for me if I left both of them. I did want to sleep with this girl, but I did not want to pass up these two girls either... I'm enjoying it too much.

I don't know what to do, at the moment I still sit here trying to process everything. At times I actually want to record the events to prove to myself that they're actually happening.

I don't love either of them, but I very much enjoy both of them. I'm being very selfish I know.

I don't know what to make of any of this. It just happened.

Now if ANY of these girls showed interest at one point or another during my life I would have loved it and dated them without any doubt in my mind. But why does it all happen at once?
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enjoy it because some 1 will finde out then you gona be back at I want :( I need :( a girl so ya don't say you'r not warned . . .
 
I don't agree with this guy's actions, but c'mon. Save the 18-year old a crappy life? Good god people, life is a bugger, stop being so melodramatic. How many of us have had bad experiences? My guess is every single one of us. How many of us have had our first loves break our hearts? My guess is a fair few. Are we all emotionally unstable psychotic screwballs because of it? I sure hope not.

And even if you are parents your little boy/girl is gonna get out into the world one day and schit will happen to them.

@ OP: Dump the 18-year old. Don't touch your friend. Stop screwing around at work. Take all this newfound mojo, get out there and pound away. And most importantly; always use a condom!
 
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If you can't be open and honest about it, its wrong.
 
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