I'm not dominating anymore...

Pho3nix

Pho3nix

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That's what my girlfriend says and apparently why she is losing interest.. Can someone please explain this to me as when I'm Rambo it's too much but when I'm Justin (Timberlake not Bieber) I'm too much of a p\/ssy it seems.

Help, advice and yes I'm expecting the "Man, up" exchange, just put some more info aswell. :) Thanks.
 
You are who you are....why the hell should you change? If she wants a fcking robot that can be programmed with the moods that she wants (sensitive, not so sensitive and hard-ass), then I suggest she order one from Honda in Japan. You a person....with moods that change.

Urg....people. BLEH!
 
By domininating does she mean you make all the decisions and cr@p? Dude you can't change your're behaviour for her(well maybe for awhile but not long).Consider breaking up I rate.
 
Pho3nix said:
That's what my girlfriend says and apparently why she is losing interest.. Can someone please explain this to me as when I'm Rambo it's too much but when I'm Justin (Timberlake not Bieber) I'm too much of a p\/ssy it seems.

Help, advice and yes I'm expecting the "Man, up" exchange, just put some more info aswell. :) Thanks.
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How long have you been together?
 
If she can't accept you for who you are, then you don't need her in your life.
 
ocleroux said:
You are who you are....why the hell should you change? If she wants a fcking robot that can be programmed with the moods that she wants (sensitive, not so sensitive and hard-ass), then I suggest she order one from Honda in Japan. You a person....with moods that change.

Urg....people. BLEH!
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People act differently depending on circumstances. Guys, for instance, tend to become to ready to please as they fall in love. They become needy and scared of losing the object of their affections.
 
I honestly don't know what dominiting is, so can't help you there.

Oh, and man up :D Seems like she wants you to take charge sometimes and make some decisions, instead of seeking her approval on everything. Don't ask her to choose the movie, don't ask her to choose the restaurant, don't ask her to pick out your underwear etc.

PS: Wtf is with the guys on this forum lately?
 
hawker said:
If she can't accept you for who you are, then you don't need her in your life.
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The keyword in the OP is anymore. Why is it so hard to believe his behaviour has changed and is repulsive?
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
I honestly don't know what dominiting is, so can't help you there.

Oh, and man up :D Seems like she wants you to take charge sometimes and make some decisions, instead of seeking her approval on everything. Don't ask her to choose the movie, don't ask her to choose the restaurant, don't ask her to pick out your underwear etc.

PS: Wtf is with the guys on this forum lately?
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Emo threads aren't a new phenomenon but they tend to come in clusters. It's like one dude pours their heart out and a bunch of 'em go "me too. I too have pain to share".
 
Nick333 said:
The keyword in the OP is anymore. Why is it so hard to believe his behaviour has changed and is repulsive?
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True...but I also got from his message that if he is too dominating then she dont like it...if he is submissive she dont like it. Sounds like a hard woman to please if you ask me. And you know what...so what if he wants her to take charge a little. Let her make some of the dicisions. Let her walk into the house and say "babe...get dressed...I am taking you to a chick flick of MY choosing and then dinner tonight" Nothing wrong with that. If anything I have respect for woman like that. Take what.....but importantly...BALANCE! There is a difference in being assertive and taking some of the control in your relationship and merely cutting your man's balls off.
 
ocleroux said:
True...but I also got from his message that if he is too dominating then she dont like it...if he is submissive she dont like it. Sounds like a hard woman to please if you ask me. And you know what...so what if he wants her to take charge a little. Let her make some of the dicisions. Let her walk into the house and say "babe...get dressed...I am taking you to a chick flick of MY choosing and then dinner tonight" Nothing wrong with that. If anything I have respect for woman like that. Take what.....but importantly...BALANCE! There is a difference in being assertive and taking some of the control in your relationship and merely cutting your man's balls off.
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Ja, ok I missed the Rambo bit. :D
Screw that *****. Find someone who knows what they want or at least whines less.
 
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