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Noob-Noob
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Well, i guess im not asking advice, just ranting...
So a while back i met this girl, now in my 30 year life span this was the 1st time i met someone with every single feature I’m searching for in a woman, she was smart, petite, witty, HOT, soft, funny, loved my type of music and we had similar interests, there was an instant attraction and we clicked from the word go, to be honest so was perfect in every aspect, when we started dating we kicked off with a bang, she was crazy about me, she told me what a Nice guy i was, how hard it is/was meeting a man like myself, how i made her smile and how she loved the way i spoiled het, she actually went as far as to asking me out and telling me we are in a relationship, it was awesome!
I bought her flowers/chocolates or random small things almost every second day, i still hand wrote her love notes because she like that type of stuff, and so did i... i took her out on very expensive dates which she loved, This past Saturday everything was still perfect, we made out before i left her house, and she texted me how much she missed me after that, yesterday morning she send me a message like she does every day, but i noticed something different, her tone was different, besides that she did not text me every hour throughout the day like she used to, me not being a over attached boyfriend did not say anything, maybe she is busy... at around 15:00 yesterday not hearing a single word from her, i send her a text and asked if she wanted to get some Sushi, which she agreed to instantly, we went there, we ate but i noticed she was different, no longer would she stretch out her hand for me to hold, again i said nothing and acted like i did not notice, after dropping her of last night i get the dreadful message “its not working, the spark is gone, hope i find someone who loves me the same way..blah..blah...blah”....i mean FFS, i did absolutely nothing wrong, i treated her like a queen, i took her to different places, i complemented her every day, her parents and brother loved me, i did everything right for a change because i wanted this one to last.
So what have i learned from this?, well for one don’t try to be a good guy and a wonderful boyfriend, be a insensitive dick, they seem to like that.
So a while back i met this girl, now in my 30 year life span this was the 1st time i met someone with every single feature I’m searching for in a woman, she was smart, petite, witty, HOT, soft, funny, loved my type of music and we had similar interests, there was an instant attraction and we clicked from the word go, to be honest so was perfect in every aspect, when we started dating we kicked off with a bang, she was crazy about me, she told me what a Nice guy i was, how hard it is/was meeting a man like myself, how i made her smile and how she loved the way i spoiled het, she actually went as far as to asking me out and telling me we are in a relationship, it was awesome!
I bought her flowers/chocolates or random small things almost every second day, i still hand wrote her love notes because she like that type of stuff, and so did i... i took her out on very expensive dates which she loved, This past Saturday everything was still perfect, we made out before i left her house, and she texted me how much she missed me after that, yesterday morning she send me a message like she does every day, but i noticed something different, her tone was different, besides that she did not text me every hour throughout the day like she used to, me not being a over attached boyfriend did not say anything, maybe she is busy... at around 15:00 yesterday not hearing a single word from her, i send her a text and asked if she wanted to get some Sushi, which she agreed to instantly, we went there, we ate but i noticed she was different, no longer would she stretch out her hand for me to hold, again i said nothing and acted like i did not notice, after dropping her of last night i get the dreadful message “its not working, the spark is gone, hope i find someone who loves me the same way..blah..blah...blah”....i mean FFS, i did absolutely nothing wrong, i treated her like a queen, i took her to different places, i complemented her every day, her parents and brother loved me, i did everything right for a change because i wanted this one to last.
So what have i learned from this?, well for one don’t try to be a good guy and a wonderful boyfriend, be a insensitive dick, they seem to like that.
