Marriage expectations

[The_Ogre]

What was the reason for the counseling? If it was because of a trust issue then it changes things a bit and I can understand why OP would be disappointed...

 

[aqua02]

Thanks for feedback, much appreciated. The incident that occurred was that my father got hijacked at gunpoint, pushed and slapped around and is really shaken up by it, and obviously my mother as well. So I went with my brothers and sisters to see them, really expected wife to just come, no question or fuss about it, instead had arrangements with friends that didn't want to cancel

Ok, if that's the incident then I honestly don't see what your wife did wrong, it's your father that needs support not you. Did your brother and sister bring along their spouses? Sometimes when we are going through some marital problems, we tend to focus on the wrongs our partners do rather than reasoning. You are being unfair to your wife.

 

[zizo911]

I agree. She should've gone with you.

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