I understand fully what you're saying and I'm sure that we could improve the performance a little if we prioritized the traffic to ensure that all gaming ports were given the highest priority possible, unfortunately it simply isn't possible to provide the type of premium gaming experience you're asking for on a commercial ADSL product which is designed for mass consumption.
Let's have a look at my situation. I have 3 children (2x teenagers), each with their own machine, and my wife and I with a machine (gaming) and laptop (work) each. Now, my son, wife and I all play WoW. Now with the current 384 uncapped, as soon as my teenage daughter goes onto Facebook, bang goes our gaming latency. Say I go to unshaped, now there's no prioritisation, facebook and WoW get the same priority, but if I have a quiet moment, Facebook takes all the bandwidth, and WoW gets none (I stand to be corrected).
I would prefer that the games I play (WoW, SC2, Aion, etc), get all the bandwidth they need, WHEN they need it. Prioritising the gaming connections would enable this, more than regular unshaped would.
With exception of the patches that games roll-out, most of my http traffic is facebook and you tube, and normal browsing and they get priority over my Gaming... Not exactly ideal in most gamers cases. In terms of setup, I can understand it might take some doing, but once you have a set of configs in place, surely this sort of connection would be cheaper (to you) than a regular http prioritised account? I'm sure most of your users are "mass market", but I'm also sure you have a fair number of gamers. Surely creating a True Gaming account, would be beneficial to you (MWeb)? A Gaming account would likely mean less bandwidth usage in general, as gaming doesn't consume much in general.
Sorry, just don't understand why the two biggest consumer ISPs (Telkom and MWeb) cannot provide TRUE gaming packages.
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Okay, I see that you have explained some of what I complain about, but I still do not understand how you cannot make provision on the network for gaming, OVER HTTP, eMail and Video Streaming. The latter being a higher bandwidth user than gaming. With all the complaints of high usage etc, surely promoting something (even though it's only about 5-10% of your user base) that makes high-bandwidth apps, lower priroity, more practical? I use on average about 30GB of bandwidth a month on my Uncapped 384, so I use a fair amount of bandwidth, but in all honesty, my priority is gaming, so I wouldn't be phased if downloads and such were slower.
/vent