My First, eh, ... date, I think? :erm: :sick:

Nerfherder said:
Well done dude nice job.

But you need to make a move next time... or else you are definately in the FZ
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I disagree. It can easily be rushed as well.
don't do it for the sake of doing it, do it because it feels like the right time to do it.
 
Nerfherder said:
Well done dude nice job.

But you need to make a move next time... or else you are definately in the FZ
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It depends entirely on the girl. Rushing it could fsck everything up. Rather take it easy to begin with.
 
Gratz dude, since you're 23 and I suspect not done it yet there might be some anxiety the first time, so getting it up may be hard but don't pressure yourself. ;)
 
I'm glad it went well. Did you or she leave with a "we should do this again sometime"? Hope so.
As for the kiss thing. My opinion on that is don't concentrate too much on it. Focus more on the stuff leading up to it. The little touch on her elbow. Holding her hand but playing with the skin on the top, not the palm. Woman generally respond well to the sense of touch. And if you don't want to get all seroius than yank on that piece of skin, but don't hurt her, and say something like. This piece is nice, man. I wish I could take it home. haa haa a big laugh.
Typing chat lines really sounds corny but expression is the key.
So when the time comes for that kiss then at least there won't be too much tension because the touchy, feely bit was done light-heartedly.
or...
When episode 2 of Days begins. Meet her. Greet her. But before you go off to your destination, tell her, "Hold on,lets do the fun stuff 1st". Kiss her, cheek would be better, hug her, then have your date. Be bold.
 
Also hug first, then hold hands... a kiss usually progresses from there naturally.
 
In the end there's no way you can synthesize real chemistry. If you have it, anything else can go wrong and it doesn't matter. If you don't, it's neither of your fault - you're not a failure with women - you just aren't right for each other. It sounds like you're getting off to a good start. Don't worry about how to take it from there.

You know one of the best places to go for a date during the daytime is somewhere in nature - a nature reserve, a beachside meal, a wine farm outdoors. On a nice day you can't go wrong.
 
Thx Guys :)

seanyp00h said:
Well done!!! NOw i hope you sent her a message just saying thanks, you had a great time, have a a good week.??
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Ha, did that before OP delivered at 3am :D

Djtay said:
Doesn't sound like much of a "success" to me. Did you even attempt to kiss her? Success means getting youre di ck wet brah.
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Are you freaking serious? There are multiple ways one can 'get your dick wet', I liked my way, preferred my way, so yeah - thx but no thx?

Kalessin said:
I disagree. It can easily be rushed as well.
don't do it for the sake of doing it, do it because it feels like the right time to do it.
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I won't be doing it for the sake of doing it. Needs to feel right - although I'll never know when that is.

Helghast said:
Awesome man!
I bet you're already thinking of date 2 ;)
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Sort of, I'm looking back at what I think I did wrong. Need to tweak it a wee lil bit more...

Aqua_lung said:
Gratz dude, since you're 23 and I suspect not done it yet there might be some anxiety the first time, so getting it up may be hard but don't pressure yourself. ;)
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I'm not particularly worried about that right now, ... I'm pretty sure that is still waaaay down the line.

kang said:
I'm glad it went well. Did you or she leave with a "we should do this again sometime"? Hope so.

Typing chat lines really sounds corny but expression is the key.

When episode 2 of Days begins. Meet her. Greet her. But before you go off to your destination, tell her, "Hold on,lets do the fun stuff 1st". Kiss her, cheek would be better, hug her, then have your date. Be bold.
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We did indeed leave with a 'we should do it again' :)

Does sound corny yes, lol.

Not such a bad idea this last one. I'll ponder about it, adapt it a bit, and call it my own :p
 
When episode 2 of Days begins. Meet her. Greet her. But before you go off to your destination, tell her, "Hold on,lets do the fun stuff 1st". Kiss her, cheek would be better, hug her, then have your date. Be bold.
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...ug...
 
ld13 said:
Eh... ic.



Go and watch a movie, dinner/drink afterwards and then maybe some random walking like late night tour of the campus or whatnot. If I wanted the opinion of a bunch of 12yo's, I would have gone there :p
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Never watch a movie on the first date. The first date is for talking. Movies don't let one talk.

The ONLY exception to this rule is if you are incapable of conversing like a normal person, in which case you watch a movie so that you both have some common ground from which to start a conversation later at dinner.
 
hawker said:
How about those pics eh?
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What pics? I'm not sharing pics. Need to respect the privacy of the other party ;)

Kasyx said:
Never watch a movie on the first date. The first date is for talking. Movies don't let one talk.
The ONLY exception to this rule is if you are incapable of conversing like a normal person, in which case you watch a movie so that you both have some common ground from which to start a conversation later at dinner.
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I disagree. There is nothing wrong with a good movie on a first date. Absolutely nothing. We even managed to have quite a nice chat before and during the movie. We parked far and walked all the way, arrived early, and waited for the trailers to 'begone'. During the silent bits we would throw a comment in between it all. No harm done.
 
So you the guy that was talking the whole time during the show.You owe me a free screening buddy boy.
 
Well done champ!!

Nothing beats that "I'm in love!" feeling!

Now you must buy her hot lingerie from Victoria's Secret to show that you care. :p
 
Sounds like it went well, congrats! If she likes you now, and judging by your comments she does, then all you have to do is not screw it up ;)

Actually just saw you were the person who commented on my cheating and relationship thread with the "How do we get into one" question. Glad to see you've figured it out already.

PS it's still not the time to be buying her stuff, I'm sure the guys above were just teasing but I'm just making sure you've picked up on that! edit: you posted seconds before I did so I see you have figured it out.
PPS 3am texting is only cool if you've either just gotten her number at 2:50, or you've just arrived home after leaving her place, or you're drunk after she's dumped you NOT :)
PPPS again don't be too eager, as a general rule you want to be at most at her level of eagerness, or preferably one step behind...

This soap opera is pretty cool, keep it going!
 
Disclaimer : I sound like an utter tool in this post.

Don't listen to all these guys spouting Pick Up Artist BS. It went well because of who you are, who she is and the chemistry generated because of it and not what some book written by a freak who dresses like an 18th century gigalo says.

You did good. You were a man and put yourself out there instead of just whining about how unfair life and women are. God knows there are enough of those losers hanging out here on MyBB.

I hope things go well but if they don't remember how awesome the feeling of that connection was and keep going for it.
 
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