It's pretty clearly spelt out in the decoder literature and DSTv Website that the R65 is for PVR functionality. I just insisted that they confirm their own terms and apply them accordingly.
Don't give in, call them up and demand that they drop the fee. I've had a high quality VCR hooked up to my system for well over a decade, but I haven't used it to record anything for so long that the time doesn't even blink 00:00 anymore. The display battery has died.
I have no need of PVR and don't see the need to pay extra for it. As it stands I've got loads of DVDs/Blu-rays that I still need to catch up on.
Did you tell them you are only using a single lnb?