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[NomNom]

Tough one bro!

I'd say dump her and move on.
Most of these things have a time limit on them, you had fun now its time to move on and be happy with your life.

Agreed

 

[Skydrops]

Financial issues at the moment. But last straw so moving in with friends this week and given notice on the lease.
Moving on, enough time wasted...

I hope you have learned some thing from all of this, would you care to come join us here?

Your thread, is like one of my worst fears OP. Id like you, and the others who went through this to come help me plan a step by step guide so that we do not have to suffer under the tyranny of women any more.

I'll be popping in here to see how it goes, what will you be doing with your furniture, personal effects and other things you share?

Update:
Im still in shock and we are trying to separate the finances and sell the house to move out. I wanted more in this relationship than she did, maybe i was just being used for comfort. I guess it was all a facade... still confused as to what is going on in her mind.

Can you still remain friends with someone after a breakup? Right now I can't see her, its heartbreaking, but in time I hope not to loose contact as we did share alot of common interests and fun times BEFORE we [correction: I] got heavily involved....

I think my best advice would be: Don't burn bridges, you never know what might lay in the future. She could be the wife of your boss one day. :erm:

Also, get a lawyer asap! These things tend to go south, fast. This is to keep things fair and not to get dragged out for various reasons.

Don't be friends, but don't be enemies. One day she might even mature up, and realize after the 10th failed relationship, who you were and what she lost.

Kind of like the current two and the half men season, don't burn bridges... the guy's x-wife was sleeping with his x-best friend, but brought a billion dollar deal to the table.

So if you play it right op, one day you can get lucky again, make up sex with her, as friends. So in the interim, cut ties and build a Chinese wall of ignore, to send her a message.

Just as shes been ignoring you and your relationship.

PS: Avoid drunk texting and phoning for the next few months... trust me, it can get awkward! :erm:

 

[Nerfherder]

Thats mean.

Jobs can be replaced people can't.

Unfortunately thats not always the case....


Anyway, no one would put their job over some one they love.

You deserve more