Now I know how that guy from cheaters feels.

M

mOOey

Senior Member
Joined
Jul 31, 2008
Messages
508
Reaction score
0
The story so far:
Sis-in-law suspects hubby of infidelity. Asks me to snoop around to find out. I send phone records and all his current emails. Raid his phone and it's all fun and games (got nudie pics he took of her. Told her. Says I can keep it. My wife says delete it. Oh well. Bitch.) until she recognised his ex in some of the emails :eek: and it was all downhill from there. They're getting a divorce...so far. Hope they can work it out, but I feel like shyte for getting involved. Should I?:(
 
I'm not very clear on the situation :/

Who are the nude pictures of - and who said you can keep them?
 
Exposing a cheater isn't a bad thing. I think its fair to intervene for the betterment of others
 
mOOey said:
sis-in-law
Click to expand...

Pics or it didn't happen :p

I wouldn't get involved with stuff like this. You always end up the "bad" one in the whole story. They should have sorted out the whole mess themselves.
 
PsyWulf said:
Exposing a cheater isn't a bad thing. I think its fair to intervene for the betterment of others
Click to expand...

Emailing an ex does not equate to cheating!

To the OP: This is your sister-in-law, so I assume you were spying on your own brother then?

Why did she think he was cheating? Is there any evidence apart from a few emails to his ex?
 
DJK said:
Emailing an ex does not equate to cheating!

To the OP: This is your sister-in-law, so I assume you were spying on your own brother then?

Why did she think he was cheating? Is there any evidence apart from a few emails to his ex?
Click to expand...

possible his wife and the sister in law are sisters?
 
DJK said:
Emailing an ex does not equate to cheating!
Click to expand...

Maybe so, but having contact with an ex and not letting your current SO know about it is deceitful and suspicious in my books.
 
mOOey said:
The story so far:
Sis-in-law suspects hubby of infidelity. Asks me to snoop around to find out. I send phone records and all his current emails. Raid his phone and it's all fun and games (got nudie pics he took of her. Told her. Says I can keep it. My wife says delete it. Oh well. Bitch.) until she recognised his ex in some of the emails :eek: and it was all downhill from there. They're getting a divorce...so far. Hope they can work it out, but I feel like shyte for getting involved. Should I?:(
Click to expand...

Don't feel bad about it. You simply revealed the reality he was keeping her from. Everyone has a right to the truth.
 
superB said:
Maybe so, but having contact with an ex and not letting your current SO know about it is deceitful and suspicious in my books.
Click to expand...

Depends on the situation. Maybe they kids together?
 
DJK said:
Emailing an ex does not equate to cheating!

To the OP: This is your sister-in-law, so I assume you were spying on your own brother then?

Why did she think he was cheating? Is there any evidence apart from a few emails to his ex?
Click to expand...

I read something about photos? Admittedly OP could have been more concise :rolleyes:
 
Dude, your first post is VERY confusing.

Nude pics of who?
Who did you tell about it?
Who said you can keep it?
Who's the bitch?

:confused:
 
Dolby said:
Depends on the situation. Maybe they kids together?
Click to expand...

If that was the case then it would be natural to assume that the ex's would be in contact. I'm talking about a situation where it is kept secret that there is still contact between the 2 parties.
 
DJK said:
Emailing an ex does not equate to cheating!

To the OP: This is your sister-in-law, so I assume you were spying on your own brother then?

Why did she think he was cheating? Is there any evidence apart from a few emails to his ex?
Click to expand...
Wife's sister.

She got suspicious when she saw a car parked outside their house, she drove past to go to the shop first, when she came back and asked him who that was in the, now missing car, he said he didn't see anything. He was in the kitchen, with a perfect view.

Then, when she asked about the communication, he denied everything until she showed him the emails, then changed his story to another lie, but she can't tell him why she knows that he's lying, because it would implicate me.

So, it's more about the lies than anything else.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top
Sign up to the MyBroadband newsletter
X