Open relationships

DJ... said:
By a different mouth though...
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InternetSwag said:
Been in 2 so far, one when I was 15 (yes 15, did not work the girl broke my virginity and I was madly in love with her).

The other one was successful until my first ever threesome got cut short by getting caught by a stepdad.

Not sure how old I was then, probably 17 or 18.
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PythonFSi said:
Thats because you're in a closed relationship. :rolleyes:
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If you want to see more than one person, why bother being in a relationship with any of them. Just have a number of flings/one night stands/hookups then.

What is the purpose of being in a relationship with one person if you are going to see others on the side?
 
blunomore said:
If you want to see more than one person, why bother being in a relationship with any of them. Just have a number of flings/one night stands/hookups then.

What is the purpose of being in a relationship with one person if you are going to see others on the side?
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Why not just do whatever works for you and not worry about what works for other people? If you hadn't noticed the world is changing at a rate of knots. And if there's one thing humans and human society is good at it's adapting to change.
 
Nick333 said:
Why not just do whatever works for you and not worry about what works for other people? If you hadn't noticed the world is changing at a rate of knots. And if there's one thing humans and human society is good at it's adapting to change.
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You say the world is changing ... ? Are you honestly so naive as to think this is something new?
 
blunomore said:
If you want to see more than one person, why bother being in a relationship with any of them. Just have a number of flings/one night stands/hookups then.

What is the purpose of being in a relationship with one person if you are going to see others on the side?
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Well have a look at the spare tyre in your boot. Its always there right. Minimal maintenance required. Need I say more?
 
_Hecate_ said:
Nope, what song is that. And are you saying women who are not into open relationships cannot be freaks in bed?

Are you willing to share your gf with another guy? Or are you already... :p

I'm sure that its mostly just men... or really old wrinkly couples :p
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no i have been there ...but no not again ....that was a while back ...i will never do that again lol

what i meant by that song is that woman lie and keep things hidden ....

PythonFSi said:
Well have a look at the spare tyre in your boot. Its always there right. Minimal maintenance required. Need I say more?
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hhahaha perfectly said ...but im still wondering how you chose of all things a spare tyre

and smalltownsky will explain it to you nicely ....for those who dont get it cause i read somewhere he spoke about it ...its about fantasies anf fetishes
 
I'm too old fashioned for that and I'm not what you would call old. I guess Its just what feels right in the relationship for those in the relationship. Open or closed, neither one is correct to the one participating in the other.

Some couples are swingers and some men like to see their SO's get done by another guy, its just all about what works for you. There's no right or wrong, just human nature.
 
samr1wp said:
no i have been there ...but no not again ....that was a while back ...i will never do that again lol

what i meant by that song is that woman lie and keep things hidden ....



hhahaha perfectly said ...but im still wondering how you chose of all things a spare tyre

and smalltownsky will explain it to you nicely ....for those who dont get it cause i read somewhere he spoke about it ...its about fantasies anf fetishes
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you talking about tyre fetishes or that people want to find someone who satifies their needs and fantasies? i think for some people it becomes a ritual, that you find someone that fulfills our fantasy or fetish and nobody else comes close, so you stop beign interested in other people. i firmly believe you look at other people when you are not being fulfilled.

i mean i WOULD eat pizza for the rest of my life, just saying :p
 
marine1 said:
Amen !!
With the way woman behave, emotionally, you need 2 or 3 so when one goes loopy you can go to the sane one
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does not compute :p

I'm all for ppl doing their own thing and what makes them happy. But I have to wonder if women when they do have open relationships dont do it for their partner rather than for themselves. If you are best friends I can see the open relationship thing work but not when you love the person.

I am yet to meet a woman who can seperate emotion from sex the way men do. Lesbian's dont count :D
 
_Hecate_ said:
I am yet to meet a woman who can seperate emotion from sex the way men do. Lesbian's dont count :D
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There are plenty of them. Not all meaningful overnight relationships result in stalking dockets opened...
 
smalltownsky said:
you talking about tyre fetishes or that people want to find someone who satifies their needs and fantasies? i think for some people it becomes a ritual, that you find someone that fulfills our fantasy or fetish and nobody else comes close, so you stop beign interested in other people. i firmly believe you look at other people when you are not being fulfilled.

i mean i WOULD eat pizza for the rest of my life, just saying :p
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Tyre fetishes ....wtf ..you even get that lol

i was saying you would explain why people choose to have open relationships
 
_Hecate_ said:
I'm curious... do they ever work? Where jealousy or insecurities dont ruin it? I dont think I'd ever be able to share someone I love. This must be a male fantasy, I've never met a woman thats open to the idea.
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I do not share.
 
samr1wp said:
Tyre fetishes ....wtf ..you even get that lol

i was saying you would explain why people choose to have open relationships
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lots of reasons.

you'd be surprised at how many adult forums have their own "motor and transport" section :p
 
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