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Sheesh I am sorryYeah, so cancer. Caught early so should be ok.
Apparently all men get it, so there's that.Sheesh I am sorry
Well my dad didn't have it and he passed last year. I have been checked for it and I'm okay, so far.Apparently all men get it, so there's that.
Of course, not everyone gets it, I'm being a bit melodramatic, sorry.Well my dad didn't have it and he passed last year. I have been checked for it and I'm okay, so far.
Understood, yes now I get what you mean. SorryOf course, not everyone gets it, I'm being a bit melodramatic, sorry.
But it is very common.
I saw my late dad's ,(Jan '26) prostrate scrape. Many years of all treatments until it came back and matastasized. He was 86. Gents,just do the test every year. With the s*t that we put our bodies through day after day. Check yourselfYou know what I don't mind sharing (anon), it might help someone else. So I will have a scrape done in two weeks. They open you up below your belly button and then remove stuff from the inside of your prostate. That allows it to decrease in size. Three nights in hospital. In turn it means you empty your bladder fully when urinating. Problem currently apparently is there are always a bit of urine remaining that causes prostate and bladder infections. Then after that about 2-3 months later they will implant radio active pellets in the prostate that will kill off the starting cancer.
They measure the risk in Gleason score, mine is 6/10 which is the start of the process, so currently the prospective is good for recovery.
It's a question I did not ask in my shock today. How often do they need to repeat this?I saw my late dad's ,(Jan '26) prostrate scrape. Many years of all treatments until it came back and matastasized. He was 86. Gents,just do the test every year. With the s*t that we put our bodies through day after day. Check yourself
You know what I don't mind sharing (anon), it might help someone else. So I will have a scrape done in two weeks. They open you up below your belly button and then remove stuff from the inside of your prostate. That allows it to decrease in size. Three nights in hospital. In turn it means you empty your bladder fully when urinating. Problem currently apparently is there are always a bit of urine remaining that causes prostate and bladder infections. Then after that about 2-3 months later they will implant radio active pellets in the prostate that will kill off the starting cancer.
They measure the risk in Gleason score, mine is 6/10 which is the start of the process, so currently the prospective is good for recovery.
Edit: to be clear 6 is the minimum, you don't get below it. Not intuitive so don't get stuck on the number.
I'm no expert in this. My father had gone through radiation and the whole sh*t years before and he was good. Very active and all that. He first went through the radiation early 2005 I think-not sure but didn't think much about it but hey....Appeared again 2020. Went through same treatment with some added steps. In that time it was fine but it started swelling again. He had a great Dr. Medical aid was talking sh*t. It wasn't like it wasn't being monitored. But suddenly sh*t changed. Opening and scraping of the pipes for lack of a better word. Yay! We've passed a milestone but no. Now it's catheters and x-rays and and and. Long story long. It ended with just managing his pain. That fcked me up. Watching my idol my motivation not being able to be his active self. Having to pick him up just to what we consider a normal part of our lives. He hated every part of not being able to do for himself.It's a question I did not ask in my shock today. How often do they need to repeat this?
I think I mentioned it earlier but not sure.So what made you concerned in the first place? Repeated bladder infections?
How old was he if I may ask. I realise time may be up, but you know...I'm no expert in this. My father had gone through radiation and the whole sh*t years before and he was good. Very active and all that. He first went through the radiation early 2005 I think-not sure but didn't think much about it but hey....Appeared again 2020. Went through same treatment with some added steps. In that time it was fine but it started swelling again. He had a great Dr. Medical aid was talking sh*t. It wasn't like it wasn't being monitored. But suddenly sh*t changed. Opening and scraping of the pipes for lack of a better word. Yay! We've passed a milestone but no. Now it's catheters and x-rays and and and. Long story long. It ended with just managing his pain. That fcked me up. Watching my idol my motivation not being able to be his active self. Having to pick him up just to what we consider a normal part of our lives. He hated every part of not being able to do for himself.
I know this is not great to hear. It doesn't mean stop caring but it doesn't mean you must stop giving the care and attention to your pops. He'll tell you when he's ready to go. That's just my peace.
84How old was he if I may ask. I realise time may be up, but you know...
He never had it removed?I'm sorry my G. I was not trying to make you feel some type of way. But early detection is what it is![]()
Good age. My mom made 87 but said for the last 3 or so that she wanted to die. Quite ****ing disturbing.