Relationship Advice?!?!?!?

[Hamish McPanji]

Thanks for the replies guys,

So we decided to be friends, we'll see how it goes.

I asked her if she's ever been unfaithful while with me, and she said no. .

1. Don't listen to geeks for relationship advice. Not all of the people here are geeks, but it's difficult to distinguish between the ones who are.
2. Being insecure and jealous drives women away. You might have scored an own goal here
3. The friends story doesn't work. You will continue stalking her whether you want to or not and she will dislike you even more. Make it a clean break. Delete her number, unfriendly her, etc. The quicker you forget the better.
4. Hire a prostitute for a weekend and give her a proper rogering. Will help you release some pressure and get your head straight again. Don't consider it a cost, but a cost saving, as you would have spent more than that on your girlfriend. Don't fall in love with the prostitute, that only works in the movies.
5. If she was unfaithful, she would have not answered honestly in a highly charged emotional situation, so put that in the "I don't really care, it's over column"

 

[Hamster]

We acknowledged that we're too different, and that I have huge insecurity and jealousy issues.

The fight started when she said I should have told her to delete the instagram picture if it bothered me that much. I didn't tell her to delete it then because I won't allow myself to be a controlling boyfriend. I'm bad enough that I'm possessive, jealous & insecure.

"Good guy" alert

So, I decided to call her bluff. I told her she can delete it right then and there. She asked me how I'll find out as my instagram account is deleted, and I told her she shouldn't worry. My plan was to check the number of posts. Once there's a decrease by 1 photo then I'd know she deleted something, then I'd ask for a screen shot.

"Creepy jealous stalker" alert

She kept dodging until she said she'll never allow me to dictate what she must or mustn't do. And then told me we'll never work out and then dumped me.

So we decided to be friends, we'll see how it goes. I still love her, but we will never work out as a couple. I'm glad it's over between us.

She admitted that she planned to break up with me this week, after she heals. I'm okay with that, even though I see that as a bit selfish.

Reality alert

I asked her if she's ever been unfaithful while with me, and she said no. I figured I could ask her because she had absolutely nothing to lose since it's over and there's absolutely nothing attaching me to her. I think she's telling the truth, but I'll never know for sure. If she's telling the truth, then my jealousy and insecurities problem is going to destroy me.

"I have no idea that the most evil of women still have feelings and don't want to be the 'bad guy'" alert

 

[Hamster]

3. The friends story doesn't work. You will continue stalking her whether you want to or not and she will dislike you even more. Make it a clean break. Delete her number, unfriendly her, etc. The quicker you forget the better.

This. Remove her from Facebook too so you can't photo stalk her

4. Hire a prostitute for a weekend and give her a proper rogering. Will help you release some pressure and get your head straight again. Don't consider it a cost, but a cost saving, as you would have spent more than that on your girlfriend. Don't fall in love with the prostitute, that only works in the movies.

Not this... although I can see how it makes perfect sense... but no, sies!

 

[Azbubu]

She admitted that she planned to break up with me this week, after she heals.

Heals from?

 

[crackersa]

he's trying to feck another girl....

 

[crackersa]

Maybe she is acting out because of the stress at work, it can be tough to be a young executive. I used to be the CEO of a beverage supply business. The company went under after labour and supply chain issues became too much. This really caused friction in our house, mainly because my mom didn't want to buy and juice lemons for me anymore...

you were banging your mom?

 

[Hamster]

you were banging your mom?

It's a brave old world out there...

 

[_Jakes_]

you were banging your mom?

WTF is wrong with you?

 

[crackersa]

WTF is wrong with you?

nothing..i'm trying to figure out your post. your were CEO, company went belly up....tensions at home with mom cause she wouldn't buy you things.

so ergo....you were banging your mom


btw...just fecking with you.

 

[SauRoNZA]

What's this obsession with someone not picking up there phone on the weekend?

You'll have a very hard time getting hold of me on a Saturday night as my phone is more than likely on the charger in the bedroom while I'm watching movies or playing games or sleeping even.

Doesn't mean I'm gangbanging. Just means I don't care.

 

[_Jakes_]

...

btw...just fecking with you.

As long as its not my Mom...:erm:

 

[TofuMofu]

What's this obsession with someone not picking up there phone on the weekend?

You'll have a very hard time getting hold of me on a Saturday night as my phone is more than likely on the charger in the bedroom while I'm watching movies or playing games or sleeping even.

Doesn't mean I'm gangbanging. Just means I don't care.

If you're in a new relationship and you say you don't care to answer your phone, then you're sending the message that you don't care so why even bother continuing?

 

[Hamish McPanji]

If you're in a new relationship and you say you don't care to answer your phone, then you're sending the message that you don't care so why even bother continuing?

That's ghey man.

 

[skeptic_SA]

What's this obsession with someone not picking up there phone on the weekend?

You'll have a very hard time getting hold of me on a Saturday night as my phone is more than likely on the charger in the bedroom while I'm watching movies or playing games or sleeping even.

Doesn't mean I'm gangbanging. Just means I don't care.

For me its the other way around.

 

[Ninja'd]

As long as its not my Mom...:erm:

 

[SauRoNZA]

If you're in a new relationship and you say you don't care to answer your phone, then you're sending the message that you don't care so why even bother continuing?

New relationship doesn't change my behaviour in the slightest.

In fact I would try extra hard to be the person I always am so as not to falsely represent myself.

And when I say I just don't care I specifically refer to my phone. Not the person.

What is this modern societal norm of having to be available to everyone 24/7/365.

**** that.

 

[Hamish McPanji]

For me its the other way around.

Yeah, but your SO is hot!!!

 

[CamiKaze]

New relationship doesn't change my behaviour in the slightest.

In fact I would try extra hard to be the person I always am so as not to falsely represent myself.

And when I say I just don't care I specifically refer to my phone. Not the person.

What is this modern societal norm of having to be available to everyone 24/7/365.

**** that.

I completely agree with this.

 

[TofuMofu]

New relationship doesn't change my behaviour in the slightest.

In fact I would try extra hard to be the person I always am so as not to falsely represent myself.

And when I say I just don't care I specifically refer to my phone. Not the person.

What is this modern societal norm of having to be available to everyone 24/7/365.

**** that.

Oh, sorry, was not aware you're older than MCD and can't adapt to modern life.

 

[Splinter]

New relationship doesn't change my behaviour in the slightest.

In fact I would try extra hard to be the person I always am so as not to falsely represent myself.

And when I say I just don't care I specifically refer to my phone. Not the person.

What is this modern societal norm of having to be available to everyone 24/7/365.

**** that.

yeah man, but you made of steel. rest of us are fallible...