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Hi guys,

So around the 24th last moth I met this awesome girl. We really hit it off well and really started to like each other.
We have similar interest and everything and she is really intelligent fun awesome and we just click.

So Friday night after we went out she sleeps over and in the morning the she sees this text I sent this other girl (its a whatsapp conversation with a girl before I even met her) in this conversation she saw I was having a chat with another female friend and I sent her these screen shots about conversations with other girls who want to get with me. So me and this female friend chat and say things like "b-tches want my D" and in hindsight it was a stupid conversation.

Fact of the matter is that it was before me and this new girl started seeing each other. we only declared that we really like each other in this week.

So Saturday morning after reading the msgs on my phone she gets upset and wants me to take her home. Later that day I apologize but she goes on saying im not the guy she thought I was and that i am a sleezy scaly ass-hole and she do not trust me anymore...

Then we stop talking and later i leave her a text saying I know she is upset and angry but if she wants to hang out she should call me.

She then laves me a message at 23:50 Saturday night saying: "I will probably cool off later, what you did is not cool"


Anyway i haven't called or texted her or anything today and neither has she. Do you think this is just anger and when she cools off she will let me know what's up or should I call after a while and try to get together to talk...


(Personally I feel she over reacted a bit but I know she really likes me and I really like her. I think she just has some trust issues...)

But yeah thanks for reading and hoping to hear some responses from some of you Alpha masters.:D
 
I'd like to know what gave her the idea that going though your phone is OK. Did she ask your permission or was she sneaky and just started reading your messages?

If it is the latter then boot her to touch, it'll only get worse. If its the former then she needs to realize that you had a life before her. Give her some time to wake up.

PS - I'm probably not even qualified to give any advice. So take it as you please.
 
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B-itches read yo txt msgs bro

Rookie mistake, you hate to see it.
 
I can only share with what happened to me. I met this woman, we hit it off, December holiday happened far apart from each other, we meet up again after holidays, she says she call for drinks during week to make up for leaving early one night....still waiting for call.

Call her after a week, if she hasn't changed her mind - it's over.
 
themank said:
I'd like to know what gave her the idea that going though your phone is OK. Did she ask your permission or was she sneaky and just started reading your messages?

If it is the latter then boot her to touch, it'll only get worse. If its the former then she needs to realize that you had a life before her. Give her some time to wake up.

PS - I'm probably not even qualified to give any advice. So take it as you please.
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Hamster said:
B-itches read yo txt msgs bro

Rookie mistake, you hate to see it.
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I actually showed her another conversation on whatsapp from this poephol friend of mine. then somehow the touch screen screwed me and went to the wrong msg. The thing that bothered he was that I ripped the phone away...
 
Post some pictures of her so we can help.

Also, Whatsapp her a picture of your penis with the caption "B-----S want the D!!!!!!!"
 
Over reacted? Are you kidding? Put yourself in her shoes. She probably thought you had done the same with her whatsapp convos with you. Especially when you snatched the phone away.

Anyway, give her a day or two to cool off then ask her if she's willing to talk to you. If she is then just tell her the truth and be mature about it. Admit you were a jack-ass (and you were for disrespecting those other girls by sharing what they thought were private convos with you - very high school juvenile antics), but you were a jack-ass before you met her. And you would never do that to her - that's if you mean it. Just bare in mind she'll probably struggle with sharing stuff with you online After this.
 
Don't try change her mind, accept that either she'll calm down or she won't. I think waiting a week is a but long, and I'd give her a call tomorrow. Basically if she's unsure then I'd say "I see different potential for us then the people before and if you want we can take it slowly". But keep your dignity. There's no convincing a woman of something they don't want to be convinced of.
 
Why did you rip the phone away? Obviously you knew she wouldn't like what she saw
 
don't waste your time with her, move on, **** for the rest of your life - you'll be happier
 
Yeah ripping the phone away was a bigger mistake than letting her read messages you typed before you met her. Makes you seem insecure and not a real man. Huge turn off for any woman. Instead your reaction should have been in the line of: If you don't like what you see, you know where the door is, help yourself out. That will give her the complete opposite impression from what you did, and instead she will maybe be a little upset with you, but much more forgiving and probably want to stay with you, even though you seem like bad news.

Going forward from where you are now though, just let it go. If she contacts you again and want to do something again, sure go ahead, but chasing her won't work, it will be a waste of your time.
 
SaoirseB said:
Over reacted? Are you kidding? Put yourself in her shoes. She probably thought you had done the same with her whatsapp convos with you. Especially when you snatched the phone away.

Anyway, give her a day or two to cool off then ask her if she's willing to talk to you. If she is then just tell her the truth and be mature about it. Admit you were a jack-ass (and you were for disrespecting those other girls by sharing what they thought were private convos with you - very high school juvenile antics), but you were a jack-ass before you met her. And you would never do that to her - that's if you mean it. Just bare in mind she'll probably struggle with sharing stuff with you online After this.
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