Relationships : More upset if ...

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Dolby

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... if your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you with the same sex?

I've never been in the situation, but I'd probably be less upset (still very upset!) if my girlfriend chose a girl over me.
 
I wouldnt mind if my girl cheated on me with a girl, that just shows she needed something you couldnt provide..

If its with a guy on the other hand, you should revaluate (sp?) what happened with you two.. because something was lacking!
 
I have no idea what prompted this thread, but I prefer to think of it this way: When you've experienced the very peak of manliness, there's only one way to go, and that's down.
 
You wouldn't mind, or you'd be less upset than if it was with a guy? :/
 
She can cheat with a girl, as long as the girls hot and I can cheat with her also.:p
 
well it wouldnt bother me like it would if she cheated on me with a guy.
if she cheats on me with a girl, then she's gay, not much i can do about that
 
It depends if she is just sexually attracted to woman, or if she has the ability to fall in love with woman. If the latter, then there would be a problem. I knew a Bi girl who only went for woman because she was turned on by them, but she couldn't fall inlove with one.

If she is playing with other girls, would that give the guy the right to play with other girls?
I remember her saying that its unfair, and that he only has the right to play with other boys,. Ofcourse he was straight so that helped nothing hahaha
 
I dated a girl that had been dumped by two guys in her past because they had 'turned' gay. She had a huge complex/phobia about it (as did Ross in Friends).
 
Cheating is cheating. If a person is having doubts about their sexual orientation or not the right thing to do is break up with your current partner first.
 
bwana said:
Cheating is cheating. If a person is having doubts about their sexual orientation or not the right thing to do is break up with your current partner first.
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Agreed. If my girlfriend found herself about to start making out with another girl who she had feelings for, I would expect her to have the presence of mind to stop and talk to me about it first. I would be far more understanding if she just came out (see what I did there?) and told me straight (oh snap! another one!), before going down (he's on fire!) that road.
 
I let my ex ex ex girl sleep with a random(girl) she had met and yes they let me watch.:D
Didnt bother me on bit because I wasnt serious about the relationship
 
on a similiar note, which would you find worse

a woman cheating on a man sexually or having a deep relationship with another man. ie: he knows more about whats going on with her than her husband does
 
I never wanted to be the one to piss on his battery, but as we all know, if YOU don't do it, SOMEONE ELSE will ;) hahaha :D
 
cipha said:
on a similiar note, which would you find worse

a woman cheating on a man sexually or having a deep relationship with another man. ie: he knows more about whats going on with her than her husband does
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Tough one :/ Both would hurt me equally.
 
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