So we broke up

[Lino]

Well I can't believe it! I thought that my girl friend and I had sorted everything out.

I worked hard at gym, dieted etc for her matric dance. Which happened last night, everything was fine until we arrived back at her house.

To cut a long story short, the usual "it's not you it's me" and I need to sort out my own things.

So here I am at work today, feeling upset and down.

So there we have it, single again

 

[The_Unbeliever]

Sorry to hear that

At least you're in shape from the gym and diet... there's lots of other fishes in the ocean, and you have a good chance for another chance.

Good luck!

 

[waynegohl]

sorry Linoman to hear that, cheer up.

 

[supersunbird]

At least you still have your Bantam!

 

[ComfortablyFloyd]

Ah man.
Thats a crappy one.

 

[guest2013-1]

To quote a few guys:

there's other fish in the sea, man, she's just a girl

no dude, that's bull****.
Think of it this way. if your precious copy of street fighter third strike broke and i told you "it's ok man, there's other games in the sea. here, play mortal kombat instead" what would you say? you'd be like, "**** that, gimme third strike."

...
you just reached me on a level that i never thought possible

 

[guest2013-1]

Oh and sorry to hear dude. Dont follow anyone's advice that includes booze + other women

Moarn for as long as you thought the relationship was worth to you (max 1 day because it was her not you ) and then shrug it off.

 

[The_Techie]

Sorry mate, best of luck.

 

[boramk]

Best thing to do in this situation: Go out with the mates, trust it helps
And at least you lost weight

 

[blunomore]

Strange timing, right after the matric dance ... Almost seems like she needed you one last time for the date and then she dropped you after using you.

That's low.

 

[Jewelbox]

Maybe you are too serious?

 

[Keeper]

Strange timing, right after the matric dance ... Almost seems like she needed you one last time for the date and then she dropped you after using you.

That's low.

agreed. Hey - I'm eating some lamb tonite - want some?

 

[guest2013-1]

Strange timing, right after the matric dance ... Almost seems like she needed you one last time for the date and then she dropped you after using you.

That's low.

You being a woman I'd reckon you'd know the tactic.

I've had endless ladies using me or my friends for pre-determined dates just because they didn't have a backup guy for the date or didn't have the balls to break up with me/them beforehand.

I have 1 friend who has been to 2 weddings and I knew about 1 of those that she would break up with him afterwards (she had the nerve to hit on me while they were dating) and I got him to break up with the bitch before she could do the dirty deed. (Had him listen in on some of the things she were saying to me to convince him)

But anyway, thats lying for you...

 

[waynegohl]

Strange timing, right after the matric dance ... Almost seems like she needed you one last time for the date and then she dropped you after using you.

That's low.

it would have been even lower if she texted him later to say those things. i also thought it was strange that she would do something like that.

 

[Lino]

Strange timing, right after the matric dance ... Almost seems like she needed you one last time for the date and then she dropped you after using you.

That's low.

You have that right, exactly how I feel.

What makes it worse is that, when I met her she was going through a bad time. Helped her a lot to get through it. I mean I stood by her when no one else would.

Now that she is moving forward, she doesn't need me anymore. My god I feel used.

 

[HideInLight]

Or she could of broken up with you after the matric dance so that neither of you would be alone for the matric dance. Could of been worse, it could of been the day before...

 

[guest2013-1]

You have that right, exactly how I feel.

What makes it worse is that, when I met her she was going through a bad time. Helped her a lot to get through it. I mean I stood by her when no one else would.

Now that she is moving forward, she doesn't need me anymore. My god I feel used.

Thats what they do dude. You know my story with my ex by now. Last month she just decided "**** that" and we haven't talked since. After I had the "you're the best friend and I can't trust anyone to help me but you" speech a few weeks earlier.

These types of women will hopefully fall flat on their arse.

And if I didn't express my amazement that blunomore doesn't know this tactic enough. I am... very... amazed, that she haven't done that to anyone before. Blunomore scored some +1's in my book

 

[Lino]

Or she could of broken up with you after the matric dance so that neither of you would be alone for the matric dance. Could of been worse, it could of been the day before...

Wouldn't have worried me as much, since it is the second dance I have been to. Already had mine etc last year.

She is the one who needed the date

 

[Lino]

Thats what they do dude. You know my story with my ex by now. Last month she just decided "**** that" and we haven't talked since. After I had the "you're the best friend and I can't trust anyone to help me but you" speech a few weeks earlier.

These types of women will hopefully fall flat on their arse.

And if I didn't express my amazement that blunomore doesn't know this tactic enough. I am... very... amazed, that she haven't done that to anyone before. Blunomore scored some +1's in my book

I agree, Blunomore you get +2 in my book

Yeah must admit though, work today seriously sucks a lot.

 

[guest2013-1]

Or she could of broken up with you after the matric dance so that neither of you would be alone for the matric dance. Could of been worse, it could of been the day before...

He has a job. Which means he's not in school. Which means he doesn't need to go to a dance. She was the one that couldn't muster up an alternative date and decided to hold out breaking up with him for a few more weeks or whatever to use him for this opportunity.

Seeing as though he lost weight and buffed up, I reckon he should pork one of her friends.