So we broke up

Linoman said:
That is so true, but yes after talking to her again. I realised that everything is my fault, and when I try to talk reason. I am feeling sorry for myself. Then she just goes offline.

Not worth it, sent a nice SMS (don't like to end things on a bad note) to which she did not reply.

Thus now I have removed her
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Had you been the one who dumped her, u wouldn't be having these problems...
That's how it goes.
 
Linoman said:
So now it is a couple of days later. We of cause have not made up which I think is a good thing. Lets me move on,

however today I am missing her so much. Wonder why could also be that I am sick I guess
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I have stopped smoking for a few days now (4 to be exact) and I am missing these poisonous things, that dirty my lungs, stink, age me, cost me a fortune and disrupt every part of my life ;)

Just because you miss something does not mean it is good :cool:
 
Natasha H said:
I have stopped smoking for a few days now (4 to be exact) and I am missing these poisonous things, that dirty my lungs, stink, age me, cost me a fortune and disrupt every part of my life ;)

Just because you miss something does not mean it is good :cool:
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So you're a loser then? Damn quitters.:mad:
 
Ok, So I basically went through the same that you went through...

1. First of all give yourself a month to get over her nothing more, if you need it.

2. Don't rush into another relationship. Because you are on the rebound. Rather try to meet new friends and get a hobby or two.

3. Like one of the guys mentioned be ready to meet her randomly in a mall with a new boyfriend. Greet her and move on. If you can be friendly be otherwise just move on!

4. Don't try to get back at her, she is not worth it and you might meet her in 10 years time. But don't count on it, in your mind she is dead!

5. It is not wrong of you not to be friends with her now. But over time your feelings would have changed and she might be a very good friend. But if you can't handle it break it clean. And also if your friends don't let she use you. Learn to say no, remember your just friends you don't owe her anything.

Good luck man!

I only went into another relationship a year after my previous one and that went sour after 3 years, long story.

Now I'm not dating anymore and just making friends and before it gets to physical I tell them I can't offer them more then friendship. Yes I don't get very lucky but at least I'm honest and I can live with myself.

Regards,
 
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