Spouse's Past

Emjay said:
So, did you keep a diary? I never know how people keep track of those types of numbers in such a short space.
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plot twist...ice_cubes keeps them in the freezer.

on second thought, that's not really a plot twist.

:o
 
You are trying too hard ice_cubes. :(

Much disappoint.
 
Unpopular Prawn said:
Where to start. ...First off, I understand why you posting on MYBB, you need an outlet. However, Mybb consists of very naïve, young, immature people, and hence, immature responses. Don't even read their comments. I too posted a relationship situation about a year back, that caused me to leave mybb until now. Moving along. To start. You are doing the right thing by seeing a professional about your feelings. I am not a professional, but it may seem as if there is something else affecting you and your relationship, and her previous relationships is the anchor you need to pull everything under with. Just keep seeing the professional, and if you not improving, then see someone else. You have been together for a long time, she is still with you too. You have to trust that she is with you for a reason, and its your job to keep giving her reason. If you withdraw emotionally, she will too. To make comparisons, i am going through a divorce, where she left me one morning. No warning. 2 small kids. It has been the worst 8 months of all our lives, and it probably will be until my kids and i can get over her and the devastation she caused. From that perspective, which is mine, think twice about divorce. Its not all roses and a sea of va-JJ. I have been dating, more for company than anything, and let me just mention, that most girls you meet, have a crap load of baggage (i guess we all do), either have kids as well, and have a rough relationship past. Your wife, with 7 historic partners, is par for the course on the dating front. In fact, she is a light weight. Anywyas, that is just my experience. As above, from my experience, work on yourself, to fix your marriage.
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holy wall of text!
 
Unpopular Prawn said:
Where to start. ...First off, I understand why you posting on MYBB, you need an outlet. However, Mybb consists of very naïve, young, immature people, and hence, immature responses. Don't even read their comments. I too posted a relationship situation about a year back, that caused me to leave mybb until now. Moving along. To start. You are doing the right thing by seeing a professional about your feelings. I am not a professional, but it may seem as if there is something else affecting you and your relationship, and her previous relationships is the anchor you need to pull everything under with. Just keep seeing the professional, and if you not improving, then see someone else. You have been together for a long time, she is still with you too. You have to trust that she is with you for a reason, and its your job to keep giving her reason. If you withdraw emotionally, she will too. To make comparisons, i am going through a divorce, where she left me one morning. No warning. 2 small kids. It has been the worst 8 months of all our lives, and it probably will be until my kids and i can get over her and the devastation she caused. From that perspective, which is mine, think twice about divorce. Its not all roses and a sea of va-JJ. I have been dating, more for company than anything, and let me just mention, that most girls you meet, have a crap load of baggage (i guess we all do), either have kids as well, and have a rough relationship past. Your wife, with 7 historic partners, is par for the course on the dating front. In fact, she is a light weight. Anywyas, that is just my experience. As above, from my experience, work on yourself, to fix your marriage.
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Look at this joker. Painted himself with the same brush.
 
Wait what?

The OP needs to see a shrink because his wife had a few knobs in her before they got together? Eish...

Mate, it's completely naïve to think there are women out there that have never had more than 1 or 10 partners. So what? She's with you and loves you obviously. Who gives a fark as to how many or who porked your wife? Let is go and move on with your life and your wife by your side.

People seriously have issues with these kind of things? Fark me... I have a lot more on my plate to worry about, not going to bother about who, when and how many times my wife got her ovaries shagged into a knot.
 
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