Taking ex back or not?

Thats a toughie, follow your heart bro. Ultimately you do know what you want to do. But make sure that what ever yiu decide to do, it's well thiught over.
 
Linoman said:
After much thinking on the matter I have decided the best possible action is:

To NOT take her back, it will just fall apart, I have blossomed without having her in my life.
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Lino, that sounds like a healthy decision.

I think the acid test for whether to be in a relationship or is that, overall speaking, the other person should lift you up, and not drag you down.
 
She'll get bored of you again - so don't bother.

I'd take Killa's advice though - I did that with my one ex, it was the easiest way to get over her.
 
Linoman said:
After much thinking on the matter I have decided the best possible action is:

To NOT take her back, it will just fall apart, I have blossomed without having her in my life.

There is no need for me to destroy myself over her.

Many more fish in the ocean, anyways I am already swimming with a few of them.
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Good choice.
Just say no.
 
Nod said:
The chances of her falling into her old habits, are very good. Getting back with your ex might turn out ok, if the underlying problem, or cause of the breakup had been resolved. If the cause of the breakup was something related to personality traits, or even bad habits, you're setting yourself up for some more heartache.

At most friendship might work, but I wouldn't even go that far. Been there, tried that.
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Yip, at the end of the day a leopard does not change their spots! You left for a reason.... what makes you think things have changed?
 
Lino, do you like to be kicked in the balls, again ? why oh why would u even consider taking her back after all this rubbish that she did to you ? i thought we came to the conclusion, that your ex should take a long walk of a short cliff. dont do it, well, go get yourself a few shaggs :D or what do people call it now, than tell her it doesnt work. Cheers vir eers
 
daveza said:
Nobody has asked the obvious -

do you want her back ?
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thedutchman said:
Lino, do you like to be kicked in the balls, again ? why oh why would u even consider taking her back after all this rubbish that she did to you ? i thought we came to the conclusion, that your ex should take a long walk of a short cliff. dont do it, well, go get yourself a few shaggs :D or what do people call it now, than tell her it doesnt work. Cheers vir eers
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LancelotSA said:
Yip, at the end of the day a leopard does not change their spots! You left for a reason.... what makes you think things have changed?
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Guys, check post #21
 
People (woman, men) make mistakes... never hurts to try again, especially if you really had feelings for her.

We are all entitled to a few mistakes
 
Don't take her back. Waste of time in my opinion. What's to stop her from doing it again once she sees, "I can date this guy, have a comfortable relationship, and every time I wanna screw around, he'll take me back...". Women are crazy, I'm telling you.
 
Shame,give the girl a chance I mean if she wants you back then she must like you and realized that she had made a huge mistake.

Love can do crazy things to people-sometimes some people just need some time away from each other to realize how much the other one means.

Basically it is your choice-if you still like her then hell get back with her,just see what happens. if You don't then just then well its obvious what you should do.
 
I would not take her back. She might hurt you again, tell her you will stay friends and see how things go from there.

She might just want you back in her life to make another guy jealous. ;)

I know that you lost weight in order to look good for her matric farewell unless her friends judged you and told her bad things about you....

I am no expert or Dr Oprah :)

If my advice is useless --- Please tell me to delete myself
 
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Linoman said:
She found out I am sort of seeing someone else and it all turned nasty. Then I got a message telling me I am like all men.

She just put the final nail in the coffin. Good riddance!
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You obviously made the right decision. But what did she expect, you to be single waiting for her to want you back :confused:
 
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