The United Nations gave Israel land in 1948 for their people to settle. They intended for them to peacefully co-exist alongside the Palestinian people. Egypt, Jordan and Syria invaded the newly formed nation of Israel determined to wipe them off the face of the earth, but Israel spanked their sorry asses and chucked them out. They gave (most of) the occupied land back to the Palestinians. Ten years later, Egypt, Jordan and Syria tried again with an army of 600,000 men to "wipe Israel off the face of the earth and drive them into the sea". Once again Israel spanked their asses. This time they did not give the occupied land back. I would not have either.
If my neighbour next door denies my right to live on my land and to exit peacefully and keeps calling for my destruction I will also kick him out of his house. I don't give a shirt who thinks that is unfair. If it comes to the safety of MY family I will kick any aggressor out. So be it. Tough Cookies for him.