But I agree that there is nothing worse than being made to feel like you are lower than pig feces because you are being given a 13th cheque.
Yes I was exploring that today because it is entirely possible that this crap happens to you and you begin to think its all in your mind. Meanwhile it is quite common, people just don't talk about it.
As an aside since it was mentioned. A handful of people use the 13th check for noble intentions (school fees, education costs, and the like). I have seen, every year, how most people (99.9%) go mad at shopping malls to keep up with the Joneses and probably to brag around the braai fire. I suspect that this year will be particularly bad. It starts around the 14-18th of November (some companies pay out the 13th check early). It is already afoot, on Friday night I was not feeling so good with this flu that is going around.. stood in a queue at the local KFC for over 30 minutes because the entire public descended on the fast food outlets en masse. When people have bonus money they:
* Don't mind being ripped off and paying more than they should for something. The December price hikes deter very few. I myself wait until Jan/Feb the following year.
* Eat takeout the entire month of December (I am sure KFC, Nandos, and McDonalds smile all the way to the bank)
* Use the mall as entertainment i.e. spend up to 8 hours or more at the malls (arrive at 8, leave after 5pm)
* Are very likely to upgrade the DSTV decoder/subscription
* Buy new phone/contract, new flatscreen TV, new vehicle (only to dump it/let the bank repossess it in July because the maintenance costs and payments are brutal)
* Get a DSLR camera (despite being totally inept to using it properly) just because Koos next door has gotten one.
* Get a new tablet, iPad or whatever to "be seen" with it.
* Purchase expensive gifts for ungrateful children/family members who return it for store credit/cash refund anyhow.
* Buy huge amounts of booze, by the case-full.
An increasing number do what is right, i.e. they buy food, but they also go mad, and empty the shelves that it can be a pain to get some kinds of foods for that month.
There was a time when this was also foreign to me. Telkom SA didn't pay me one for several years, then suddenly woke up one year and paid me one. The following year I was already working elsewhere so I won't know what could have happened.