To find a partner!

StonerStuart said:
Interests/ Hobbies: Building objects for practical use from wood, Gardening, Debating... Thats a tricky question, I might not really know myself as well as I thought I did.

Passions: Photography, Travelling, Hiking, Trekking, Climbing, Walking... Anything outside.

Wow I might need to meditate or something to find out who I actually am.
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MickeyD said:
Join some clubs or societies (per your interests/hobbies/passions).
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Exactly what MickeyD said and what I was leading up to. It's how I met my fiance. We both have a big passion for gaming and since it's something we can do together = EPIC WIN.

We also share a passion for the outdoors (hiking, swimming, camping, etc). So we get along really well.

Find a forum or society of like-minded individuals who share your interests. You're bound to come across a cute little thing who likes the same stuff as you :)
 
Lycanthrope said:
Exactly what MickeyD said and what I was leading up to. It's how I met my fiance. We both have a big passion for gaming and since it's something we can do together = EPIC WIN.

We also share a passion for the outdoors (hiking, swimming, camping, etc). So we get along really well.

Find a forum or society of like-minded individuals who share your interests. You're bound to come across a cute little thing who likes the same stuff as you :)
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Hhhm, interesting... I will look for something like that now.
 
StonerStuart said:
Hhhm, interesting... I will look for something like that now.
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Well, there are always dating sites :p

I believe that the best way to find the perfect person for you is to find someone who shares tangible interests with you. Not just loosely affiliated conditions like, "Does it have boobs? Check."

Sure, those things are important too, if you're into those sort of things. But for a workable relationship you need a lot more. Someone you can make memories with (ideally by doing the things you love together) is the best way to pull that off.

Also, far fewer conflicts of interests (Omg, I don't WANNA DO THAT!). However, if you're the jealous/possessive type, it's probably not a good idea to both like competitive sports unless you're okay with losing to your loved one. In which case you likely wouldn't be the jealous/possessive type any way :p

Methinks m'lord should find a good female friend at first and work it all out from there. Again, someone who shares your interest = great foundation to start with.

*rant* *rant* *rant* :p
 
StonerStuart said:
Hahaha good plan if you lived in the 40's or were hardcore religious. These days single parents are the in-thing! So there will be no obligation to stay together.
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or ask an ugly old fat unemployed divorced HIV positive woman with kids and emotional baggage if she wants to move in with you.
 
Lycanthrope said:
Well, there are always dating sites :p

I believe that the best way to find the perfect person for you is to find someone who shares tangible interests with you. Not just loosely affiliated conditions like, "Does it have boobs? Check."

Sure, those things are important too, if you're into those sort of things. But for a workable relationship you need a lot more. Someone you can make memories with (ideally by doing the things you love together) is the best way to pull that off.

Also, far fewer conflicts of interests (Omg, I don't WANNA DO THAT!). However, if you're the jealous/possessive type, it's probably not a good idea to both like competitive sports unless you're okay with losing to your loved one. In which case you likely wouldn't be the jealous/possessive type any way :p

Methinks m'lord should find a good female friend at first and work it all out from there. Again, someone who shares your interest = great foundation to start with.

*rant* *rant* *rant* :p
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I have tried dating sites, the free ones, the ones that have more fake profiles than facebook.
Nothing came of it. I have come to the conclusions that girls do not need any help finding men. It is the men that need all the help they can get.

Yes boobs are important, but so are other things. It would be nice to meet some girls who like hiking and photography, datable ones, not ones you keep locked up in your spare room. That would be nice.

I already lack in the friend category since I changed my lifestyle, Might need to invest in some new ones.
I have one friend but he is in the same boat as I am. The one short of paddles and life vest.

And I have had too many "gilr" Friends (friendzone) and I would not like to go back to that ever in my life. I do not wish those feelings on anyone one.
 
Don't you know any Stoner Stacy's. Find yourself a nice stoner chick. Someone who you can smoke weed with and share the munchies with. The best person to help you out with this is your local dealer. Just make sure that you don't end up with a hooker during her periods.
 
theone said:
Don't you know any Stoner Stacy's. Find yourself a nice stoner chick. Someone who you can smoke weed with and share the munchies with. The best person to help you out with this is your local dealer. Just make sure that you don't end up with a hooker during her periods.
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DAMN MY USERNAME.............
 
StonerStuart said:
Wow, some great advice. Thank you.

Seriously, medium priced hookers?
Im looking for love and all that **** not herpes and the aids...
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It is a myth spread by uptight spoilsports that hookers have herpes and aids.
 
Saying one tactict is better than the other and suggesting different kinds of tacticts for different situations are all nonsense.

If you can you will. If you can't you won't.

And don't tell me about this, "whether you think you can or can't, you're always right", BS.
It sounds good on paper or on an electronic monitor ... but nowhere else.
 
StonerStuart said:
I have been on the forum for a short while now and I have come across some good and some terrible advice on how to find a girl (partner).

I thought that a thread of tips and advice might be a good recourse.

The best and most amusing tip I have heard so far has to be from Nicci and her Falconers Glove:
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I remember news24 having this same issue, he solved it by looking at his family.
 
StonerStuart said:
Hahaha good plan if you lived in the 40's or were hardcore religious. These days single parents are the in-thing! So there will be no obligation to stay together.
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I disagree with that statement. A child needs to know alternative decisions/routes, nevermind the financial burden. I don't think many single parents planned it to be that way (or wanted it).
 
StonerStuart said:
I have been on the forum for a short while now and I have come across some good and some terrible advice on how to find a girl (partner).

I thought that a thread of tips and advice might be a good recourse.

The best and most amusing tip I have heard so far has to be from Nicci and her Falconers Glove:
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Leave it to a woman to guide you into how to start a relationship based on lies. I know "we all" pretend like the sun shines out of asses and put up this whole show & tell thing in the beginning of any relationship, but after a while you start learning the truth and think to yourself "how would I ever trust this person?"

The falcon is cute, but only after you come clean and say something cute on your first date by confessing how much you wanted to meet her but didn't have the guts to just walk up to her and say hi (btw, THAT works also). This would at least set the entire relationship on the right path after the 1st date already and could give you guys a cute segway into how you met.

Best and ONLY tip I have for you is FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. Meaning confidence. Drool/ooze confidence. Don't be cocky, that just sucks, but be yourself.... a CONFIDENT yourself.

There isn't a girl (in recent memory, going back to ... what... 2003?) that I have met that I haven't asked straight up "show me your boobs" after meeting/chatting to her for a few days. Hell, sometimes I'll even lead off with (after introductions and pleasantries have been exchanged) "Oh and by the way, you will be showing me your boobs soon"

They react in a few different ways, suffice it to say, boobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobies

I fake confidence by not giving a **** if this girl is interested in me or not and it won't really matter WHAT I say because a) I'm myself and I don't pretend to be all PC and **** and b) If she doesn't like it then I don't want to be with someone who can't accept me for who I am and the way I talk/ask for things.

It's a great ice breaker after the "hi how are you what is your name great weather huh" and it takes the edge off, because you can be all creepy about it, funny about it or confident about it (confident works more than funny/creepy FYI)

AAANYWAY

**** all the advice and chat up lines anyone gives you. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT (even if your heart is pumping inside your ears and you can barely hear what she has to say over your own damn fear)
 
AcidRaZor said:
Leave it to a woman to guide you into how to start a relationship based on lies. I know "we all" pretend like the sun shines out of asses and put up this whole show & tell thing in the beginning of any relationship, but after a while you start learning the truth and think to yourself "how would I ever trust this person?"

The falcon is cute, but only after you come clean and say something cute on your first date by confessing how much you wanted to meet her but didn't have the guts to just walk up to her and say hi (btw, THAT works also). This would at least set the entire relationship on the right path after the 1st date already and could give you guys a cute segway into how you met.

Best and ONLY tip I have for you is FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. Meaning confidence. Drool/ooze confidence. Don't be cocky, that just sucks, but be yourself.... a CONFIDENT yourself.

There isn't a girl (in recent memory, going back to ... what... 2003?) that I have met that I haven't asked straight up "show me your boobs" after meeting/chatting to her for a few days. Hell, sometimes I'll even lead off with (after introductions and pleasantries have been exchanged) "Oh and by the way, you will be showing me your boobs soon"

They react in a few different ways, suffice it to say, boobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobiesboobies

I fake confidence by not giving a **** if this girl is interested in me or not and it won't really matter WHAT I say because a) I'm myself and I don't pretend to be all PC and **** and b) If she doesn't like it then I don't want to be with someone who can't accept me for who I am and the way I talk/ask for things.

It's a great ice breaker after the "hi how are you what is your name great weather huh" and it takes the edge off, because you can be all creepy about it, funny about it or confident about it (confident works more than funny/creepy FYI)

AAANYWAY

**** all the advice and chat up lines anyone gives you. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT (even if your heart is pumping inside your ears and you can barely hear what she has to say over your own damn fear)
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You need to go see a psychiatrist. End.
 
StonerStuart said:
I have been on the forum for a short while now and I have come across some good and some terrible advice on how to find a girl (partner).

I thought that a thread of tips and advice might be a good recourse.

The best and most amusing tip I have heard so far has to be from Nicci and her Falconers Glove:
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Aww, thank you Stuart :) I hope you come right!!!!
 
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