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StonerStuart said:
Ja I suppose a compliment is not bad thing but too many and the gates go SHUT
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Well, a compliments only as good as who it comes from. I'm sure none of us minds the occasional compliment from just about anyone but from someone who doesn't have much confidence or self-esteem repeated compliments just sound sycophantic.

When you think about it the greatest compliment is when someone you like and respect and find attractive wants to spend time with you. When you have that you don't really need compliments.
 
Another way of looking at it is, to a worthwhile person (i.e. someone who thinks they are worthwhile) compliments are nice but unnecessary.
 
Nick333 said:
Well, a compliments only as good as who it comes from. I'm sure none of us minds the occasional compliment from just about anyone but from someone who doesn't have much confidence or self-esteem repeated compliments just sound sycophantic.

When you think about it the greatest compliment is when someone you like and respect and find attractive wants to spend time with you. When you have that you don't really need compliments.
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Ya I suppose a compliment from someone who brings nothing is worth little.
 
StonerStuart said:
Complimenting an article of clothing is not the best way to prove your heterosexuality.

I highly doubt that a woman will be attracted to you if you compliment her on her clothing.
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You feel the need to prove your heterosexuality?
 
StonerStuart said:
Oh so you are a cheater!
Well good for you, and stop pretending you are a man!
You are making a fool out of yourself!
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theres a difference between a cheater and a guy who sees different woman

if theres no ring on the finger and you not in a relationship with that person ...what you do with other people is not cheating
 
samr1wp said:
theres a difference between a cheater and a guy who sees different men

if theres no ring on the finger and you not in a relationship with that person ...what you do with other people is not cheating
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I would like to know what those other men think of you seeing other men!
I think they would call it cheating!
 
StonerStuart said:
Well are feminine men not less attractive to women?
Would you really think it is a good idea complimenting a woman pair of shoes?
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Well, first of all, I wouldn't call complimenting a woman's shoes feminine in and of itself. And, while there are obviously women out there who like men to be ulta-masculine I think any women who would judge a man as feminine simply because you had taste in women's clothes is probably a bit of an idiot.

And even if there was some suspicion that you were gay as a result, I wouldn't worry about a lack of attraction unless you were particularly effeminate. Lot's of girls love gay guys and I really don't think them suspecting you are gay is going to turn off any attraction they might have for you. It'd probably make them feel more comfortable around you. They'll figure it out soon enough.

Either way women like clothes. Talking about what women like is always a good thing when you are trying to talk to women.
But, really going through life worrying that women will think you're gay is a bit silly.
 
exactly nick ...cause when you take your woman out shopping or something you cant come there with a very ugly dress or lingerie if you know she is diffferent

and if she takes you shopping then you need to be able to tell her whats nice and whats not

doing that does not make you gay in any way

some guys hate shopping but some guys have to do it
 
Nick333 said:
Well, first of all, I wouldn't call complimenting a woman's shoes feminine in and of itself. And, while there are obviously women out there who like men to be ulta-masculine I think any women who would judge a man as feminine simply because you had taste in women's clothes is probably a bit of an idiot.

And even if there was some suspicion that you were gay as a result, I wouldn't worry about a lack of attraction unless you were particularly effeminate. Lot's of girls love gay guys and I really don't think them suspecting you are gay is going to turn off any attraction they might have for you. It'd probably make them feel more comfortable around you. They'll figure it out soon enough.

Either way women like clothes. Talking about what women like is always a good thing when you are trying to talk to women.
But, really going through life worrying that women will think you're gay is a bit silly.
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Ok good points.

However I do not fear women or anyone thinking I am gay.
I know I am not, I have nothing to prove to women but I will not compliment there clothing unless the article makes them look good then I would rather compliment her on making said article look good!
 
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