Grant
Honorary Master
So, a couple of years back i had a fling of sorts with some guy. This went on for about 18 months.
He is / was straight, met him through a female friend of mine at some club in town.
When she first pointed him out to me i am not sure what my reaction was, maybe i gasped & clutched at my pearls or something, but she just laughed.
There are a few things in life, where you know if you dont try it, you will remain ever unsatisfied & wanting. To me, he was that thing.
We are dealing with a good looking guy, in his early 20s (back then), had a great body (swimmer type), interesting personality & great sense of humor - along with a killer smile.
He was clearly the "dominant alpha male" in his group of friends - the one they all gravitate around, and the females in the vicinity would preen & display their feathers in an attempt to get his attention.
This was going to be no easy catch & possibly a long term project.
Well, persistence pays off !
Anyway, it became a friendship with a sexual component to it, we'd see each other maybe twice a week & the rest of the time we did our own thing.
18 months or so passes & he is going to be doing some training course overseas for 6 to 8 months.
We email each other with less frequency over time & eventually lose contact.
A year or so passes, suddenly i swing into stalker mode.
Eventually track him down on facebook, to learn since he has got back, he has got married, had a kid & apparently found god !!
"Very well", i think to myself, and leave it at that.
A few months later out of the blue i get a call from him. We chat - lots of idle chit-chat.
So now, he calls every so often, he has told me he is married with a kid & wants me to meet the wife sometime.
Every couple of weeks or so, we email each other - just a "how are you doing" kind of thing.
Yesterday i get mail. "Hello, bla bla bla" etc.
I mail him back, & ask how the wife & kid are doing.
I get this back:
Dafuq ?
I am both flattered & mortified.
How do you name your kid after some guy you once had a sexual relationship with ??
Imagine one day when the kid asks "dad, where does my name come from" ?
"Well son, back when i was 22 or 23, there was a guy who c**k i used to really enjoy sucking, quite often really - well we named you after him" !
I have not responded to his mail, quite frankly, i dont even know how.
He is / was straight, met him through a female friend of mine at some club in town.
When she first pointed him out to me i am not sure what my reaction was, maybe i gasped & clutched at my pearls or something, but she just laughed.
There are a few things in life, where you know if you dont try it, you will remain ever unsatisfied & wanting. To me, he was that thing.
We are dealing with a good looking guy, in his early 20s (back then), had a great body (swimmer type), interesting personality & great sense of humor - along with a killer smile.
He was clearly the "dominant alpha male" in his group of friends - the one they all gravitate around, and the females in the vicinity would preen & display their feathers in an attempt to get his attention.
This was going to be no easy catch & possibly a long term project.
Well, persistence pays off !
Anyway, it became a friendship with a sexual component to it, we'd see each other maybe twice a week & the rest of the time we did our own thing.
18 months or so passes & he is going to be doing some training course overseas for 6 to 8 months.
We email each other with less frequency over time & eventually lose contact.
A year or so passes, suddenly i swing into stalker mode.
Eventually track him down on facebook, to learn since he has got back, he has got married, had a kid & apparently found god !!
"Very well", i think to myself, and leave it at that.
A few months later out of the blue i get a call from him. We chat - lots of idle chit-chat.
So now, he calls every so often, he has told me he is married with a kid & wants me to meet the wife sometime.
Every couple of weeks or so, we email each other - just a "how are you doing" kind of thing.
Yesterday i get mail. "Hello, bla bla bla" etc.
I mail him back, & ask how the wife & kid are doing.
I get this back:
Dafuq ?
I am both flattered & mortified.
How do you name your kid after some guy you once had a sexual relationship with ??
Imagine one day when the kid asks "dad, where does my name come from" ?
"Well son, back when i was 22 or 23, there was a guy who c**k i used to really enjoy sucking, quite often really - well we named you after him" !
I have not responded to his mail, quite frankly, i dont even know how.
People like him should be put down.