https://wiki.debian.org/DebianDesktopHowTo#Select_Appropriate_Debian_Release
I'm using testing, a.k.a. next-stable, a.k.a. (currently) bullseye.
Debian Testing is good for most users. Find it a bit more stable, a quite bit more lightweight (less memory) and LOT more up to date than Ubuntu.
There's still a netInstall - like image - use the one with extra drivers or you may not get very far.

