Unexpected pregnancy

[Maverick Jester]

but if i don't.....i really tell her it's ok to have the baby?
she told me to take my time and think....but i don't want her to think i need to think about it, and maybe change my mind later...i need to make sure that,that is what i want, and i am 100% sure of it.

How does she feel about it? Your feelings alone are not enough to validate her having an abortion. She is the one that has to live with the consequences of it.

 

[Shake&Bake]

You tell her it's her choice.

Indeed - and then she'll get the courts to tell you how much her choice will cost you for the next 18 years if the two of you are not amicable about the situation.

 

[gregmcc]

you did it, it's happened ,

Now man up, and be responsible

This.

Congrats - your a dad. Your life will be changed forever. You will just have to deal with it.

 

[Kornhub]

Ouch dude. Always use protection even if she is on the pill.

 

[mug11]

i feel like such an idiot...i always insist on a condom....the very few times i did it without was in a committed relationship.

 

[Maverick Jester]

Otherwise you're left with the option OP - to go down on one knee and punch her in stomach as hard as you can! :twisted:


/applies flame suit

 

[ijacobs3]

People try for years, and don't get it right, suck it up, it really is not as bad as everyone makes it out to be!

 

[The_Unbeliever]

Better start planning and looking at maternity options.

 

[za1]

i feel like such an idiot...i always insist on a condom....the very few times i did it without was in a committed relationship.

you going to be a daddy, congrats, awesome news

 

[Hamish McPanji]

Otherwise you're left with the option OP - to go down on one knee and punch her in stomach as hard as you can! :twisted:


/applies flame suit

Am surprised you would even offer that up as a joke.
Some people are just stupid and might actually take your suggestion seriously

 

[Ninja'd]

Indeed - and then she'll get the courts to tell you how much her choice will cost you for the next 18 years if the two of you are not amicable about the situation.

 

[mug11]

Otherwise you're left with the option OP - to go down on one knee and punch her in stomach as hard as you can! :twisted:


/applies flame suit

Tell me more! lol

 

[Kornhub]

i feel like such an idiot...i always insist on a condom....the very few times i did it without was in a committed relationship.

How old are the both of you?

 

[mug11]

I been on this forum for a long time....this is my most successful thread!!!
how sad!!! :-(

 

[Shake&Bake]

There's no paternity test to be done while the fetus is in utero is there?

Am surprised you would even offer that up as a joke.
Some people are just stupid and might actually take your suggestion seriously

I heard it as one - and tend to throw it around as one.

Tell me more! lol

Ey! Easy now pilgrim.

 

[Ninja'd]

I been on this forum for a long time....this is my most successful thread!!!
how sad!!! :-(

Nokkie

 

[mug11]

can i count or the week and a half difference to assume it's not mine,or not?

 

[Shake&Bake]

I been on this forum for a long time....this is my most successful thread!!!
how sad!!! :-(

DaveBuchannan1337 is that you?

 

[Kornhub]

can i count or the week and a half difference to assume it's not mine,or not?

Ai dude she is going to think you are a real butt if you don't trust her.

 

[Maverick Jester]

OP- the only advice you will probably get is that your life has drastically changed, unfortunately in your case (given the situation). Best way forward is to start making preparations for it.

I would also say, search around for couples looking to adopt. They might provide a better home for your future child.