Unexpected pregnancy

[R13...]

Doesn't sound like your baby so just play it cool and have paternity confirmed at birth.

 

[themba990]

Doesn't sound like your baby so just play it cool and have paternity confirmed at birth.

That's a long time to wait not knowing...

 

[mug11]

Doesn't sound like your baby so just play it cool and have paternity confirmed at birth.

but thats risky....what if it's proven to be my baby??
i can be held liable....

 

[azbob]

but thats risky....what if it's proven to be my baby??
i can be held reliable....

You mean liable?

 

[mug11]

I am meeting her tomorrow, i am gonna be like "wait a second...i am confused....5 weeks ago you were not even in the country..."
lol

 

[mug11]

You mean liable?

sorry...i haven't been sleeping much!

 

[Kornhub]

I am meeting her tomorrow, i am gonna be like "wait a second...i am confused....5 weeks ago you were not even in the country..."
lol

Does sound suspicious. Not sure how they work out pregnancy times though.

 

[Necuno]

Unexpected pregnancy

Hi everyone....for obvious reasons...i want to be anonymous writing this message!

So I know this girl for a while now, we are just friends, nothing else.
3 weeks ago , we had unprotected sex, during and after i asked her a few times if it's ok and maybe we should rather use a condom and she assured me it's ok.

yesterday i was told she is pregnant.
seems like i am unable to convince her to abort...i asked her how far is she, and she said 5 weeks! but we had sex 3.5 weeks ago!!!

however someone posted this on the internet:

She might not understand the difference between a doctor telling her "you are x weeks pregnant" and a conception date. (A doctor times a pregnancy by the first day of the last period, or if that date is not known, by an implied first day of the last period. Doctors don't mess around giving conception dates, they don't know what they are

is this true?

How is this unexpected in anyway?

 

[azbob]

sorry...i haven't been sleeping much!

You've been sleeping around though

 

[Maverick Jester]

I am meeting her tomorrow, i am gonna be like "wait a second...i am confused....5 weeks ago you were not even in the country..."
lol

Or you could be like, "I'm not ready for this level of responsibility and commitment, and would like us to explore our options with regards to the baby."

Just saying... wussing out is not really an option here...

 

[ChocolateBadger]

Did she ever mention anything about being on the pill? If not, then you really are a chop, I mean mug.

 

[atomcrusher]

but thats risky....what if it's proven to be my baby??
i can be held liable....

If it's yours you are liable .. welcome to the world of responsible parenthood. A few minutes of pleasure is going to cost you plenty over the years

 

[mug11]

Or you could be like, "I'm not ready for this level of responsibility and commitment, and would like us to explore our options with regards to the baby."

Just saying... wussing out is not really an option here...

I already said that, and will repeat that at least 10 times!!!
but i need to mention the 5 weeks, in a not accusing way!

 

[mug11]

Did she ever mention anything about being on the pill? If not, then you really are a chop, I mean mug.

she did not, i asked if it's safe to have sex without condom and she said yes.
C L E A R L Y i was stupid....so lets move on....

 

[Maverick Jester]

I already said that, and will repeat that at least 10 times!!!
but i need to mention the 5 weeks, in a not accusing way!

Fair enough. So this will be your first time actually questioning whether the child is yours or not?

 

[mug11]

Did she ever mention anything about being on the pill? If not, then you really are a chop, I mean mug.

she did not, i asked if it's safe to have sex without condom and she said yes.
C L E A R L Y i was stupid....so lets move on....

 

[R13...]

but thats risky....what if it's proven to be my baby??
i can be held liable....

If it's yours you're liable and will be held responsible anyway. Better enjoy some pregnant sex for a while.

 

[Necuno]

I already said that, and will repeat that at least 10 times!!!
but i need to mention the 5 weeks, in a not accusing way!

/passes cigars

 

[Rickster]

We are just friends, nothing else.
3 weeks ago , we had unprotected sex, during and after i asked her a few times if it's ok and maybe we should rather use a condom and she assured me it's ok.

yesterday i was told she is pregnant.
seems like i am unable to convince her to abort...i asked her how far is she, and she said 5 weeks! but we had sex 3.5 weeks ago!!!

She sounds like a bitch for holding it against you.

Maybe he really loves you and is using the baby to force you to be with her.

 

[ChocolateBadger]

She sounds like a bitch for holding it against you.

Maybe he really loves you and is using the baby to force you to be with her.

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Eish...some girls would do anything to get out the friendzone