I have to ask how this is going?
Do you ever get the impression that they are 'friendly' in a polite way, just being friendly for friendly's sake?. I've always had this impression that the northern europeans being polite is kinda 'fake' while the mediterranean bunch are more of a happy go lucky crowd like us. I'm just thinking in terms of my local pub where you have contractors from all around the world and within a week everyone is getting on like they've known each other for yonks.
Yeah they're courteous.
I went diving in the red sea last month and the boat was filled with a bunch of europeans and everyone got on like a house on fire. The scandanavian guy was the only oddball. He was my dive buddy so we spent a ton of time together, even then he was courteous at most, and didn't really make friends with the rest.
It's difficult. I'm not home much so I miss out on all the events taking place here. Just last week we had a huge music festival here with alphaville and a bunch of bands playing and literally everyone was out, so that kinda sucks.
I was seeing a girl here too for a while who broke it off because I was nearly never home, so yeah. Make of that what you want.
I think it has to do with how they perceive foreigners too. If you're a foreigner in SA you'll make friends in your first week and people will want to show you places...here I feel like foreigners are often little more than a nuisance.









