what exactly constitutes cheating?

[Baxteen]

Since this woman can speak for herself:

The fact that I love him, trust him and can talk to him. The fact that he respects my autonomy, my choices and me.

The fact that he is comfortable with our lifestyle and my sexuality. The fact that we have both done things in the past that we're not proud of, but that we don't let those things colour our relationship.

The fact that, despite evidence to the contrary, he is a decent human being who actually does give a damn about those that he loves.

The fact that he's not a bigoted douche with a chip on his shoulder.

Also, why would I get tired of him? He's fantastic in bed, does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.

I think I just found my signature

 

[D3nz]

Also, why would I get tired of him? He's fantastic in bed, does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.

Oh man! He does dishes AND cooks!

/fans self

 

[Akasha]

Oh man! He does dishes AND cooks!

/fans self

He also has awesome hair that makes most people jealous

 

[Baxteen]

Oh man! He does dishes AND cooks!

/fans self

not at the same time. its one or the other. I cook, she does dishes. she cooks, I do dishes.

sometimes I will do the dishes while I cook to clear up space and make her freak out at me for doing more than I should

 

[Vegeta]

does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.

He?
/does not compute

 

[ShaunSA]

Also, why would I get tired of him? He's fantastic in bed, does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.

He makes you go CarBOOM

 

[Car_B_OM]

He makes you go CarBOOM

He does indeed.

 

[cerebus]

Yea I'm calling troll on this thread.

 

[Ho3n3r]

Yea I'm calling troll on this thread.

Congrats... or something.

 

[ShaunSA]

Yea I'm calling troll on this thread.

Who cares. It makes for some interesting reading.

 

[bokdrol]

Anyway, OP, you should take Random Hero's advice, he is a relationship expert.

 

[Colin62]

Anyway, OP, you should take Random Hero's advice, he is a relationship expert.

By that you mean he's been in three relationships, each of which ended in an angst filled thread and lots of Alpha behaviour?

 

[bokdrol]

By that you mean he's been in three relationships, each of which ended in an angst filled thread and lots of Alpha behaviour?

exactly!

 

[EMAM]

I was in an open marriage for 19 years, I just didn't know it

 

[Vegeta]

I was in an open marriage for 19 years, I just didn't know it

WOW 19years fokkit. No indication? How is that even possible... Also flippen sneaky bastard that not even one strange call or message slipped out in 19years for you to pick up on.

 

[Jehosefat]

He's fantastic in bed, does dishes and cooks. He's f***ing perfect.

If only that was all it took...

 

[Nick333]

If only that was all it took...

Strange thing to say when that's not all she wrote.

 

[EMAM]

WOW 19years fokkit. No indication? How is that even possible... Also flippen sneaky bastard that not even one strange call or message slipped out in 19years for you to pick up on.

Are you new here?????

 

[ShaunSA]

Strange thing to say when that's not all she wrote.

I guess the love, trust, talk and host of other things she mentioned went over his head.

 

[FiestaST]

Cheating is such an oversubscribed topic these days.

If she is still sleeping with you and cares for you at the end of the day, does it really ****ing matter? I get jealousy - really I do. But get over it. Talk about it. Try and build an understanding of where things went wrong or how it can be better. Dancing with someone? Are you ****ing ****ting me?

Wow that is k@k argument if I ever heard. I would like to think that to *any* serious person it (cheating) would matter.