What the hell is wrong with you eliteists/snobs...

shadow_man

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Wtf is up with you eliteists/snobs out there. This is a discussion between me and someone else - Am I wrong? Should I apologize? (I am him in the below, she is her etc...)

[09:27:50 AM] Me says: good good thinking of changing banks
[09:27:55 AM] Me says: since standard bank is ****ing me for costs
[09:27:57 AM] Her says: ok
[09:28:03 AM] Me says: http://www.capitec.co.za/
[09:28:03 AM] Her says: fnb is good
[09:28:06 AM] Me says: capitec is dirt cheap
[09:28:09 AM] Her says: not capitec
[09:28:10 AM] Me says: way cheaper than anyone else
[09:28:26 AM] Her says: capitec is for people that earn **** all
[09:28:38 AM] Her says: you cant choose it just coz its cheap
[09:28:41 AM] Me says: nope, interest is better than standard for one
[09:28:43 AM] Me says: and charges less
[09:28:46 AM] Me says: thats a misconception
[09:29:12 AM] Me says: standard charge R3.50 + 1.2% or my transaction at atm ( max 31.50) , capitec is R2.50 flat flee, or 6.50 at another banks atm, flat fee
[09:29:15 AM] Her says: we put casuals on the capitec so we dont have to pay then cash, you dont qualify
[09:29:24 AM] Me says: yes I do
[09:29:35 AM] Her says: ok
[09:29:37 AM] Her says: whatever
[09:29:37 AM] Me says: they are a full fledged bank
[09:29:39 AM] Me says: youre mistaken
[09:29:47 AM] Her says: i know who they are
[09:30:09 AM] Her says: they work reallly well for people who dont earn eniugh to join other banks
[09:30:23 AM] Me says: they also charge like 50% less
[09:30:27 AM] Me says: for the same service
[09:30:30 AM] Her says: exactly
[09:30:33 AM] Me says: EXACTLY
[09:30:44 AM] Me says: youre just being a snob if you try stay at a big bank for the name, service is worse, cost is higher
[09:30:54 AM] Me says: the best banking i ever had was ****ty little volkskas
[09:30:59 AM] Me says: and nbs
[09:31:00 AM] Me says: the small banks rock
[09:31:03 AM] Me says: service is awesome
[09:31:10 AM] Her says: thats not my point
[09:31:34 AM] Me says: youre point of its for low earners is snooty, its cheaper, why pay more?
[09:31:36 AM] Her says: its like you have food in your fridge, but you gonna eat at the shelter coz its cheaper or free
[09:31:49 AM] Me says: why waste money? thats bloody pointless
[09:32:05 AM] Her says: whatever its your choice
[09:32:16 AM] Me says: sometimes you astound me
[09:32:23 AM] Me says: thats a really classist comment to make
[09:32:29 AM] Her says: i just think it was specifically made to cater for people who earn alot less than you
[09:32:51 AM] Me says: what the hell is wrong with offering lower rates? stop being an eletist
[09:33:14 AM] Her says: stop throwing fancy words at me
[09:33:18 AM] Me says: that big banks charge more because they can, the competition comission proved that. Fnb charges 70 bucks for a bounced debit order, capitec charges R3
[09:33:24 AM] Me says: why the hell would you stick with fnb?
[09:33:42 AM] Her says: go for capitec
[09:33:51 AM] Her says: i just think you missing their point
[09:33:58 AM] Her says: you not living a shak
[09:34:07 AM] Her says: why do you get special treatment
[09:34:09 AM] Me says: your mentality on this amazes me
[09:34:17 AM] Me says: you are just being a snob
[09:34:21 AM] Her says: **** you
[09:34:27 AM] Her says: you missing my pooint
[09:34:34 AM] Her says: you being the ****ing snob
[09:34:40 AM] Her says: just coz you wanna save money
[09:34:47 AM] Me says: no im not, youre saying its for poor people, that im to good for capitec etc etc
[09:34:47 AM] Her says: thats ****in heartlwess
[09:34:59 AM] Me says: THE BANK STILL RUNS AT A MULTI MILLION RAND PROFIT
[09:35:12 AM] Me says: BOOO HOO im not prepared to go with the 4 big banks who have THE HIGHEST BANKING CHARGES IN THE WORLD
[09:35:23 AM] Me says: why the hell would I do that, its daft
[09:35:36 AM] Her says: coz you're an *******
[09:35:43 AM] Her says: and now you just being rude
[09:35:46 AM] Her says: spk later
[09:35:52 AM] Her says: wen you calm the **** down
[09:38:11 AM] Me says: Its pointless ang this is where we disagree, you will shop at woolworths just because you can even if pick n pay has the same stuff for less of a price
[09:38:14 AM] Me says: name is important to you
[09:38:33 AM] Me says: I don't see why I should let a bank bend me over lube me up and shaft me
[09:38:35 AM] Me says: just for a name
[09:38:54 AM] Me says: Its exactly the same thing and i'd save like 80% on bank charges, yet you will still go for the bigger bank, its daft
[09:42:51 AM] Me says: You have too much money for your own good if you are being this eliteist
[09:42:54 AM] Me says: people are people
[09:43:13 AM] Me says: stop classifying in wealthy and poor terms - why the **** should we all pay more for the same ****ing service
[09:43:32 AM] Me says: paying fnb 1000 a month for bank charges when i could pay capitec 200 for the same ****ing thing
[09:43:45 AM] Me says: the big banks do you know what their profit is on a debit order?
[09:43:50 AM] Me says: about R65 rand each debit order
[09:43:55 AM] Me says: thats MILLIONS A MONTH PROFIT
[09:44:05 AM] Me says: why the **** would i pat them on the bakc for inferior service
[09:44:09 AM] Me says: and ripping me off
[09:44:18 AM] Me says: its like giving telkom a trophy for telecoms company of the year
[09:44:23 AM] Me says: they made 9 bil profit
[09:44:25 AM] Me says: they ****ED EVERYONE
 
Didn't read all of this - but agreed.

I have accounts at all other banks, but my bank of choice is Go Banking. My salary goes there, my debit orders go off there, interest is high, charges low etc

I have the 'real' banks accounts - I just don't use them often.

So in 20 minutes you killed off a friendship?
 
When your friend realises how much she is losing over the long term, she will get over the snobbiness. It may be too late by then.
 
who were you talking to when she left though?
 
I'm with you.....it's not rich people that are stingy it's stingy people that's rich........... one day she'll kick herself...
 
Lol I would not use Capitec bank, hell no!!
Especially when every second bank is going bankrupt, if you had to be with a bank now, rather a big bank with lots of millionaires than a small bank with little people and higher risk of them not paying the bank.

You got to emotional for nothing...:p
 
Please can you go back and highlight Her responses in Pink and Your responses in Blue, will make it easier to follow :)
 
firstly - that girl is really into you. You should ask her out.

secondly - low bank charges is one thing but how do you tell if a bank is stable or safe?
 
Lol I would not use Capitec bank, hell no!!
Especially when every second bank is going bankrupt, if you had to be with a bank now, rather a big bank with lots of millionaires than a small bank with little people and higher risk of them not paying the bank.

You got to emotional for nothing...:p

It's those big corporations that are requesting bail outs all over the world.
 
U guys type really quickly as well, just a few seconds between posts.:eek:

Sometimes just 2 seconds between a post and reply.:eek:
 
U guys type really quickly as well, just a few seconds between posts.:eek:

Sometimes just 2 seconds between a post and reply.:eek:

There's a 30second limit between posts tho :(
 
Lol I would not use Capitec bank, hell no!!
Especially when every second bank is going bankrupt, if you had to be with a bank now, rather a big bank with lots of millionaires than a small bank with little people and higher risk of them not paying the bank.

You got to emotional for nothing...:p

Don't you think a small bank with generaly low income clients might have better risk management? ;)
 
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