Where are the single men?

To the OP:

I read your issue again, and I can honestly say that, you need to change your perspective a little. There is no need to be married or have kids.

The questions you need to ask yourself are:

1. Do I need marriage, and for what purpose?
2. Am I fine with having friends with benefits for the foreseeable future?

Being married is all that and a bag of chips, but, its hard work, and not an easy road by comparison. Kids are expensive, and a huge drain on your energy and free time.
 
Randy_The_Squirrel said:
To the OP:

I read your issue again, and I can honestly say that, you need to change your perspective a little. There is no need to be married or have kids.

The questions you need to ask yourself are:

1. Do I need marriage, and for what purpose?
2. Am I fine with having friends with benefits for the foreseeable future?

Being married is all that and a bag of chips, but, its hard work, and not an easy road by comparison. Kids are expensive, and a huge drain on your energy and free time.
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QFT
 
So have you been contacted and swapped pics with anyone yet?
We need constant updates.
 
Some questions for papaya101. This is so that I can scour the internet for partners -

1. Do you prefer to be the big spoon or the little spoon?

2. Do you watch porn? If so, what type? If not, why?

3. Do you even lift? How much can you deadlift?

4. If you could have dinner with anybody that has ever lived, who would it be? Why?

5. What makes you different from other girls? Answers like "beauty", "intelligence" or "funny" do not count as these are very common traits.

6. How many jagermeisters does it take?
 
Jaws677 said:
And the biggest blessing you will ever experience in your life
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I disagree. Most people I know with kids are unhappy and their kids cause them more stress and unhappiness than happiness in my opinion. Very often they're the source of the unhappiness.

People sing your tune because they're biologically predisposed that way once they have offspring. Not a bad thing of course, but it does put super thick rose tinted glasses over your eyes.

Off the top of my head, the only genuinely happy parents I know either have kids who left the nest at a young age and became self-sufficient quite quickly, or have enough money that bankrolling their kids' delusions is of little consequence.
 
Bryn said:
I disagree. Most people I know with kids are unhappy and their kids cause them more stress and unhappiness than happiness in my opinion. Very often they're the source of the unhappiness.
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When they're little, they're your biggest joy...and then they become teenagers and you seriously consider running away from home, taking a hammer to the PlayStation, changing the WiFi password, dropping them off in the middle of a forest...
Rearing children is definitely not all fun and games.
 
D3nz said:
When they're little, they're your biggest joy...and then they become teenagers and you seriously consider running away from home, taking a hammer to the PlayStation, changing the WiFi password, dropping them off in the middle of a forest...
Rearing children is definitely not all fun and games.
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The ****ting themselves all the time is a big nope to me.
 
Beachless said:
At 5ft Im betting not many :whistle:
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Maybe she's Irish?

Fsks you guys are negative about kids, they are amazing but if the parents are screwed up then the kids take it all on and not surprisingly that little cauldron of witches brew can turn out a rather unhappy situation for all involved.

Get your ducks in a row then have kids. Don't have kids thinking they'll magically get your ducks in a row that doesn't happen, granted some people do serendipitously see the light after getting kids but by and large kids will just aggravate an already open wound... then the septicemia sets in.
 
airborne said:
Maybe she's Irish?

Fsks you guys are negative about kids, they are amazing but if the parents are screwed up then the kids take it all on and not surprisingly that little cauldron of witches brew can turn out a rather unhappy situation for all involved.

Get your ducks in a row then have kids. Don't have kids thinking they'll magically get your ducks in a row that doesn't happen, granted some people do serendipitously see the light after getting kids but by and large kids will just aggravate an already open wound... then the septicemia sets in.
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Or don't.
 
Randy_The_Squirrel said:
To the OP:

I read your issue again, and I can honestly say that, you need to change your perspective a little. There is no need to be married or have kids.

The questions you need to ask yourself are:

1. Do I need marriage, and for what purpose?
2. Am I fine with having friends with benefits for the foreseeable future?

Being married is all that and a bag of chips, but, its hard work, and not an easy road by comparison. Kids are expensive, and a huge drain on your energy and free time.
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the problem is that this guy is trying to be serious
 
airborne said:
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Get your ducks in a row then have kids. Don't have kids thinking they'll magically get your ducks in a row that doesn't happen, granted some people do serendipitously see the light after getting kids but by and large kids will just aggravate an already open wound... then the septicemia sets in.
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Ducks are way better than kids.
 
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