Why Dating Today Is Nearly Impossible

RaptorSA said:
Nope. Not a chance.
I just have to open Tinder and immediately this is proven wrong.
This looks ridiculous and if you think it doesn't then good on you, I guess.

Imagine being married to this, each time you wanted to look at your wife's cleavage your brain first has to decipher some serpent snake medusa looking thing staring back at you. She even calls herself Medusa, how many things had to go wrong in this person's brain to think that's a good look and image to put out into the world, for the rest of your existence. Imagine her being 55 or 60 years old looking like this and having to keep up the edgy medusa thing. Her unhappiness is guaranteed, and no person would convince me otherwise.

Oh, and you know she's dated tons of men in the past, each and every one of them guaranteed to be some low IQ a-hole with a RAP sheet and a job that pays cash unde the table. This a masterclass in how to make sure your existence is not guided by what you do or who you are, but by a momentary decision you took when you were younger and surrounded by people who didn't have the balls to criticise your decisions.
Society need to stop infantilising and validating these women

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Jissis oke. Not your tattoos, not your wife. B R E A T H E.
 
RaptorSA said:
...and the thing is it's not about forcing people to conform. It's about setting some societal standards to protect most people against their own bad decisions, or at the very least, add some friction to life altering ones.
If these were edge cases it wouldn't be something I'd bother with, but it's not, it's become a massive thing affecting about 30% of the population and that's a level of pending misery that will affect many more people as time goes by.

The time has come to see this for the momentary fad that it was and start discouraging people from doing it.
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Do you think women should also insta block all men with tattoos on Tinder? Given men with tattoos represent / glorify being gang members / non conformity violating the word of g*d etc etc
 
Tim_vb said:
Do you think women should also insta block all men with tattoos on Tinder? Given men with tattoos represent / glorify being gang members / non conformity violating the word of g*d etc etc
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The lack of impulse control goes both ways.
The thing about too many tats on a woman though is they make her look more masculine, so by default she's limiting her dating pool and the type of men she attracts, at least with men it doesn't subtract or necessarily change the masculinity they project, so I find it to be a bit less of a problem if men have tats, at least, to some aesthetic level.

This interview with this chick is a good example.
She's 40, and you can see she knows perfectly well now from experience how those tats are screwing her over on the dating market. The other problem with tattoos is that it's nonsensical to have sympathy for people who deeply regret them later in life because it's a decision they made themselves, and they put a lot of time and money into that decision.

I almost feel bad for her, almost.


There is a big flip side though to my entire argument, and it's the fact that I actually sometimes prefer people with low self-control to wear tattoo's, it really does make for a great filter if you value your time.
 
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RaptorSA said:
There's not nearly enough of us truth tellers.
Not even close to it.

The supposed conservative "manosphere" bullss**t in recent years have taken hold of the discussions about these topics I just leaned into, that's as good as it's been for a while, but all it's doing is politicising reality and I can't wait for this whole thing to die so we actually talk about reality.

There are some deep problems in the west we need to talk about that's been panning out in the real-world that cannot be ignored forever, problems I shrugged off as generational issues, no they're not.


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Is it nice and warm in your little echo chamber?

Once you reach a certain maturity in life you learn judging people by appearances is a fools errand.
Sure if a person behaves like a twat then give them the boot but that applies to anyone and everyone.

Wouldn't it be nice if judging people by appearances was an accurate gauge of character, then all well dressed well spoken people with no tattoos could be trusted implicitly but as any person with a modicum of maturity can tell you that is a recipe for disaster.

For sure someone with far too many tattoos can be a red flag but then so is wearing too much makeup or too much garish branded clothing or whatever it may be and even then you first let them display their true colours, show what they are about before jumping to a conclusion, even the best people have bad days or have made stupid decisions.
As they say, we are only human, all of us not just @RaptorSA with his giant carrot up his @ss. :whistling:
 
Benedict A55h0le not said:
I don`t know, my sugar babies always tell me "it is HHHUUUUGGGEEEEE!". I never really care how big my schlong is, but when I look down I can see their mouths are stretched to the max, and they try to force it in but it never goes in more than half way. A sugaring session always starts like this:

Sugarbaby: "it is HHHUUUUGGGEEEEE!"
Me/daddy: "you always say that...."
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Then you need to start getting girls in double digits.
 
SlinkyMike said:
Although I can't say that there aren't extremists in the world I think this is either overblown or you're rocking up to dates waving an IDF flag. Very few people hate "ze Jews" it's more about ethnonationalism, something we should as South Africans be keenly vigilant of. I say this as a Jewish person: decrying the apartheid state of Israel is not antisemitism.
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I get your point, but still there is principles one need to adhere to, I wont support terrorists or their supporters, I just wont,
for instance if I want somebody to do panel beating for me, and he has a Palestine flag, I say no thank you and move on, same with if he is fixing my phone screen, or washing dishes or whatever, same as the opposite if I run around with an IDF flag,
hence why IRL I never air my strong viewpoints without knowing more about said person and their temperament.


and same extends to dating, If they dont know or care or are of a neutral viewpoint, cool, not gonna bring it up again, but if not?
no thank you, no matter if its Angeline Jolie levels of hotness or not.
 
RaptorSA said:
An Afrikaans speaking Jew.
You should start your dating profile with that.
If scarcity is an indication of high value then you my friend have almost no competition.
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Dont speak Afrikaans, as I keep saying, Hebrew Yes, Farsi and Arabic no,
scarcity is maybe a Israeli passport but not much else besides my neurotic worrying and complaining
 
Jet-Fighter7700 said:
Dont speak Afrikaans, as I keep saying, Hebrew Yes, Farsi and Arabic no,
scarcity is maybe a Israeli passport but not much else besides my neurotic worrying and complaining
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Won't be hard to learn though, the average Afrikaans speaker's language is so degraded and anglicised that I found myself spending almost an entire day giggling when I found out that drone/quadcopter in Afrikaans is a "brommeltuig".

When I read an Afrikaans article these days I have to actually sit and focus, or I don't understand a third of it.
 
RaptorSA said:
Won't be hard to learn though, the average Afrikaans speaker's language is so degraded and anglicised that I found myself spending almost an entire day giggling when I found out that drone/quadcopter in Afrikaans is a "brommeltuig".

When I read an Afrikaans article these days I have to actually sit and focus, or I don't understand a third of it.
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Brommeltuig? I think you confused with a Brommer.
Drone is a Hommeltuig, like in think how a bee fly and hover. Afrikaans you call bumblebee a Hommelby
 
I dont think tattoos are an indication of anything ethical/non ethical.

Its just not attractive. Same with a nose ring, mulitple piercings, etc.

And in dating world attractiveness is still important.
 
rh1 said:
I dont think tattoos are an indication of anything ethical/non ethical.

Its just not attractive. Same with a nose ring, mulitple piercings, etc.

And in dating world attractiveness is still important.
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I'm sure the ones complaining the loudest about it look like potbelly pigs on a good day. It's funny how the women needs to look a certain way, but the men don't even put a nice shirt on that doesn't show their fat rolls hanging out under it.

Straight women really got the short end of the stick.
 
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TofuMofu said:
I'm sure the ones complaining the loudest about it look like potbelly pigs on a good day. It's funny how the women needs to look a certain way, but the men don't even put a nice shirt on that doesn't show their fat rolls hanging out under it.

Straight women really got the short end of the stick.
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Dude, chill, its Friday. This is my preference if I was in the dating market. Pretty sure most women would also pass me by cause I dont meet their preference.
 
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