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So I dated this girl for 4 years.. It was quite deep, we already discussed things like marriage, kids, our home... Everything.
then we broke up earlier this year. actually we broke up twice then I left.
Wednesday:
So anyway. I completely ignored her and went on with my life, haven't heard from her in about 5 weeks.
Then she Randomly calls me to tell me about her new job which is closer to where I stay, I was brief because I had a meeting with a client and the MD. It was weird that she called me because just the day before I started to think about her a lot. Later that day I texted her and said it was great to hear her voice again and she replied similarly.
Friday:
2 days later I called back because I was so brief on the phone when she called. just talked for a bit. Then after the call she texted me to say thanks for the call and she really enjoyed hearing my voice. and then I said something like "I love hearing your soothing voice too"
Saturday Night between 20:00 - 00:00:
She texts me and says Text 1:"Im glad you enjoyed hearing my voice and that it is so soothing"
Text 2:"My voice belongs to my boyfriend" and I reply with "oh and who is he?" (I thought she meant me and was just flirting). But the next day when I sobered up I realized it was probably a new BF or she is trying to make me Jealous.
What do you make of this? why would she call me and text that, and then mention she has a boyfriend?
Been feeling weird and uneasy since Sunday.
I'd love to hear what you think.
then we broke up earlier this year. actually we broke up twice then I left.
Wednesday:
So anyway. I completely ignored her and went on with my life, haven't heard from her in about 5 weeks.
Then she Randomly calls me to tell me about her new job which is closer to where I stay, I was brief because I had a meeting with a client and the MD. It was weird that she called me because just the day before I started to think about her a lot. Later that day I texted her and said it was great to hear her voice again and she replied similarly.
Friday:
2 days later I called back because I was so brief on the phone when she called. just talked for a bit. Then after the call she texted me to say thanks for the call and she really enjoyed hearing my voice. and then I said something like "I love hearing your soothing voice too"
Saturday Night between 20:00 - 00:00:
She texts me and says Text 1:"Im glad you enjoyed hearing my voice and that it is so soothing"
Text 2:"My voice belongs to my boyfriend" and I reply with "oh and who is he?" (I thought she meant me and was just flirting). But the next day when I sobered up I realized it was probably a new BF or she is trying to make me Jealous.
What do you make of this? why would she call me and text that, and then mention she has a boyfriend?
Been feeling weird and uneasy since Sunday.
I'd love to hear what you think.