Why does she do this...

DrewChan

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Do as everyone says OP, manipulating you for her gain, she gets off on "dominating" you. Problem is that as soon as you move on she'll become all needy and chase you and the cycle will begin again.

Delete her number, block her, delete her facebook - erase everything and move on.
 
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Spontaneous Interruption

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Nothing... haven't heard anything since that text. no reply... dead silence..

Nah then she's playing games with you. Either you play along and see where it goes or ignore and move on.

Oh and to answer your question "why does she do this" ... She's a woman - that's all the answer there is.
 

Random Hero

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that is just damn wrong. she should not have contacted you at all. some women need a flipping psychiatrist I swear.

Damn! I know.. and now I have that feeling where she is like a fish hook inside my brain and like there is this weight on my heart...
Things were going great the last couple of weeks, been meeting girls and enjoying life again...

And now every 3rd song I hear makes me think of her and is some kind of breakup, being alone song... Damnit! it just happened now..

[video=youtube;Ua7OT1nmWFU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua7OT1nmWFU[/video]


Wont be very productive at work for the rest of the day... =/
 

CamiKaze

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Meh, just ignore and move on...

I have someone from the past telling me about shst every couple of years. It starts with "I met someone", then 2 years later "I bought a new car", etc...
 

Random Hero

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So now that I have become THAT guy... Any advice? I will not be texting again or anything and everything is deleted.. how do I get over this feeling where I lost my Balls last week? Its like my scrotum is in her handbag...

Oh and really thanks for the advice so far.
 

Zewp

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So now that I have become THAT guy... Any advice? I will not be texting again or anything and everything is deleted.. how do I get over this feeling where I lost my Balls last week? Its like my scrotum is in her handbag...

Oh and really thanks for the advice so far.

Just give it some time. Break-ups suck and take time to work through. And whatever you do, ignore her if she tries to initiate contact again.

You're better off without someone as superficial as her in your life.
 

CamiKaze

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Just give it some time. Break-ups suck and take time to work through. And whatever you do, ignore her if she tries to initiate contact again.

You're better off without someone as superficial as her in your life.

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Random Hero

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Just give it some time. Break-ups suck and take time to work through. And whatever you do, ignore her if she tries to initiate contact again.

You're better off without someone as superficial as her in your life.

Thanks Bro...
 

Mila

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She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.

She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.

You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.

Now move on and be someone's Ferrari. Stop being the dusty little car in the garage that she uses when the others are not around.
 

Spontaneous Interruption

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She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.

She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.

You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.

Now move on and be someone's Ferrari. Stop being the dusty little car in the garage that she uses when the others are not around.

Waaaay too much sense in this post.
 
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