Walk away. Now.
Don't phone her, text her or anything. Get on with your life.
She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.
She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.
You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.
Now move on and be someone's Ferrari. Stop being the dusty little car in the garage that she uses when the others are not around.
Cause she's looking for attention. I had an ex like this. They thrive of the ego boost. If I was you I'd just cut my ties and move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
Delete her number, block her, delete her facebook - erase everything and move on.
Listen to this man
I did read you messege and it make sense to me but the computer nurds on the website learn you the wrong stuff evans though they dont know of girls. the other messege you did get is from her friend who did want you to back off so she or he did sent the messege when your girlfriend did past out from the wine so the friend did take her phone to send the messege
Damn! I know.. and now I have that feeling where she is like a fish hook inside my brain and like there is this weight on my heart...
Things were going great the last couple of weeks, been meeting girls and enjoying life again...
And now every 3rd song I hear makes me think of her and is some kind of breakup, being alone song... Damnit! it just happened now..
[video=youtube;Ua7OT1nmWFU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua7OT1nmWFU[/video]
Wont be very productive at work for the rest of the day... =/
Que? My head is spinningI did read you messege and it make sense to me but the computer nurds on the website learn you the wrong stuff evans though they dont know of girls. the other messege you did get is from her friend who did want you to back off so she or he did sent the messege when your girlfriend did past out from the wine so the friend did take her phone to send the messege
She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.
She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.
You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.
When she eventually sms's you back, ignore it.
When she calls you after that, be friendly as you were originally but cut her off mid conversation and tell her you will call her back, don't.
Carry on like that for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to meet you for drinks, get there 40 minutes late (or just don't go).
Eventually she will want to shag you out of insecurity. Do it and treat it as a one night stand then block her number.
She is destroyed, you can carry on with your life.
Jeez, and you say women are vindictive and spiteful?When she eventually sms's you back, ignore it.
When she calls you after that, be friendly as you were originally but cut her off mid conversation and tell her you will call her back, don't.
Carry on like that for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to meet you for drinks, get there 40 minutes late (or just don't go).
Eventually she will want to shag you out of insecurity. Do it and treat it as a one night stand then block her number.
She is destroyed, you can carry on with your life.
Although you are right - do you see how fscked up it looks when you type it out and how illogical the thought processes are?![]()