Why does she do this...

Nerfherder

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Why did you break up ?


Anyway.... walk away from this, even if she is not crazy/evil the current pattern is not setting you guys up for a good future.
 

ISP cash cow

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She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.

She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.

You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.

Now move on and be someone's Ferrari. Stop being the dusty little car in the garage that she uses when the others are not around.

Nicely put :D
 

GforceD

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Listen to this man

Yup! Run Forest Run! She wants you for her "friend zone" which is not near her "fun zone".

Or she's one of those clingy girls, things aren't going well with the current BF and she doesn't want to be alone so she readying you as the rebound!
 

GreGorGy

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I think she is into you and wants to get back together - she isn't seeing anybody and was trying to find a way to get back into your good books. She said her husky voice is for her boyfriend - and she gave you the husky voice, making you the boyfriend.

Call her - ask her out again. If I'm wrong, you waste R0.79. If I am right, you get a blow job and then dump her åss.
 

mushroom

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I did read you messege and it make sense to me but the computer nurds on the website learn you the wrong stuff evans though they dont know of girls. the other messege you did get is from her friend who did want you to back off so she or he did sent the messege when your girlfriend did past out from the wine so the friend did take her phone to send the messege
 

Bar0n

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I did read you messege and it make sense to me but the computer nurds on the website learn you the wrong stuff evans though they dont know of girls. the other messege you did get is from her friend who did want you to back off so she or he did sent the messege when your girlfriend did past out from the wine so the friend did take her phone to send the messege

The pinnacle of human evolution, ladies and gentlemen.
 

macxsanity

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Damn! I know.. and now I have that feeling where she is like a fish hook inside my brain and like there is this weight on my heart...
Things were going great the last couple of weeks, been meeting girls and enjoying life again...

And now every 3rd song I hear makes me think of her and is some kind of breakup, being alone song... Damnit! it just happened now..

[video=youtube;Ua7OT1nmWFU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua7OT1nmWFU[/video]


Wont be very productive at work for the rest of the day... =/

Dude you are PU$$Y Whipped ...Get over her sory @$$ ......unless if you want to continue being her emotional toilet paper
when ever she is feeling low
 

AstroTurf

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When she eventually sms's you back, ignore it.
When she calls you after that, be friendly as you were originally but cut her off mid conversation and tell her you will call her back, don't.

Carry on like that for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to meet you for drinks, get there 40 minutes late (or just don't go).

Eventually she will want to shag you out of insecurity. Do it and treat it as a one night stand then block her number.

She is destroyed, you can carry on with your life.
 

bokdrol

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I did read you messege and it make sense to me but the computer nurds on the website learn you the wrong stuff evans though they dont know of girls. the other messege you did get is from her friend who did want you to back off so she or he did sent the messege when your girlfriend did past out from the wine so the friend did take her phone to send the messege
Que? My head is spinning
 

Dolby

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She wanted reassurance that you are still there and have not moved on, but when you got to serious she backed off.

She wants you hooked but only wants to reel you in when she really needs you. And she doesn't really need you now. But she might when the new thing isn't as exiting as she thought.

You are her safety net.
You are her trusty old vw city golf. And she wants to test out a few other models.

Although you are right - do you see how fscked up it looks when you type it out and how illogical the thought processes are? ;)
 

biena

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When she eventually sms's you back, ignore it.
When she calls you after that, be friendly as you were originally but cut her off mid conversation and tell her you will call her back, don't.

Carry on like that for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to meet you for drinks, get there 40 minutes late (or just don't go).

Eventually she will want to shag you out of insecurity. Do it and treat it as a one night stand then block her number.

She is destroyed, you can carry on with your life.

Only shag her if you had a vasectomy, oh and do not show up for the drinks, update/tweet how much fun you are having at other club.
Or spend your energy on someone else and forget this one.
 

bokdrol

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When she eventually sms's you back, ignore it.
When she calls you after that, be friendly as you were originally but cut her off mid conversation and tell her you will call her back, don't.

Carry on like that for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to meet you for drinks, get there 40 minutes late (or just don't go).

Eventually she will want to shag you out of insecurity. Do it and treat it as a one night stand then block her number.

She is destroyed, you can carry on with your life.
Jeez, and you say women are vindictive and spiteful?
You've been doing well aside from the blip. Treat is at one and move on. Don't respond to messages or calls from her.
 
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