Wife cheated

[ArmatageShanks]

Well guys

I found out who it was she is having (still) the affair with. The school principal

Who is 20 years older than her

Instantly thought of die Oom from Vetkoekpaleis.

 

[James 77]

What a fscking mess.

Good luck.

I have serious trust issues because of cheating bitches. I won't ever get married.

Hope schit works out for you mate.

Thanks man

I’m just glad everything came to a point, in the beginning nothing made sense and everything was a contradiction.

Now it’s time to move on.

 

[James 77]

do you think they are going to continue with their affair? Seems so based on the way you found out it was him.

I also believe they will, at least until she moves to her parents.

 

[James 77]

Really good thread this, well done forumites.

@James 77 you handled the Wole affair (some pun intended) pretty damn good in my opinion, wish you all the best going forward.

Thank you very much, I appreciate it. It was tough though, very unexpected.

 

[James 77]

Now that your wife has gone to stay somewhere else, and you might be going away, make sure that the moves don't prevent the Sheriff of the Court serving the divorce papers. The Sheriff has to be able to know where to find you, and to find her. If the Sheriff tries to serve, but you, or she, are/is no longer at the former address, that's certainly going to cause everything to take longer (and possibly cost more). Generally, it's a good idea to do whatever is in your power to ensure that the current addresses are made known.

Will do, thank you.

 

[johnjm]

Thanks man

I’m just glad everything came to a point, in the beginning nothing made sense and everything was a contradiction.

Now it’s time to move on.

Yeah, what was initially a once off thing turned out to be a full blown love affair it seems. Emotional charges affairs are time bombs.

What makes this even more sad, is that they think their love will become something else, but the truth is 4% if affairs turn into something meaningful and long term. He won’t leave his wife for her.

I hope that both you and your soon to be ex finds peace.

 

[Datura]

Now that this has been kinda resolved, let me go see if that other "J" is still going off about his ATM woes

 

[The_Ogre]

Now that this has been kinda resolved, let me go see if that other "J" is still going off about his ATM woes

He'd rather risk getting deported, than leave the issue and fly back to India

 

[Datura]

He'd rather risk getting deported, than leave the issue and fly back to India

So also opting for a "divorce". All is well then

 

[James 77]

Yeah, what was initially a once off thing turned out to be a full blown love affair it seems. Emotional charges affairs are time bombs.

What makes this even more sad, is that they think their love will become something else, but the truth is 4% if affairs turn into something meaningful and long term. He won’t leave his wife for her.

I hope that both you and your soon to be ex finds peace.

Thank you very much, and I agree. It is highly unlikely that something more will come of their affair.

I hope she finds what she is looking for.

 

[pinball wizard]

I told her afterwards that I know it’s with her boss, which she tried to deny first. But admitted and asked me to keep her secret. As if...

Papers signed, time to tell us his name.

 

[JeffMan]

Thank you very much, and I agree. It is highly unlikely that something more will come of their affair.

I hope she finds what she is looking for.

How was your date?

 

[hellfire]

Thank you very much, and I agree. It is highly unlikely that something more will come of their affair.

I hope she finds what she is looking for.

Why?

 

[WorldWarIII]

okay okay , all happy and what not. THere is the unresolved issue of whos gonna take one for the team and freight train the old b###h . Which one of you gonna plant it in this guys dirty old wife like a frenchman on a underage prostitute???

 

[Craig_]

Why?

I also want to know. This oke is way too nice.

 

[Y'all Qaeda]

Papers signed, time to tell us his name.

This.

Nuke this principle dwis from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.

EDIT: We've given enough free advice. It's time OP delivered with a picture of his new ex.

 

[James 77]

How was your date?

A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell

But it was exhilarating to be honest, it's been 6 years since I spent time with another girl

 

[James 77]

Why?

I believe in forgive and forget.

 

[James 77]

I also want to know. This oke is way too nice.

That's true. But personally, I feel better about myself for not hating. I don't hold grudges.

 

[James 77]

okay okay , all happy and what not. THere is the unresolved issue of whos gonna take one for the team and freight train the old b###h . Which one of you gonna plant it in this guys dirty old wife like a frenchman on a underage prostitute???

Haha, there should be someone willing to take one for the team