Wife cheated

James 77 said:
That's true. But personally, I feel better about myself for not hating. I don't hold grudges.
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You are also a better person than most. I'd have been baying for the arseholes blood. Or at least got back in one way or the other at either one of them.
 
Looney said:
You should at least make sure his wife knows about his affair. Why should he get to keep his life after being complicit in ruining yours (even if you will better for it).
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That sort of schit can bite you in the ass. Fsck him and his life. Who cares? Walking away from the situation is the only way to heal properly. Dude just needs to tend to his own wounds. If we go around trying to play the revenge card on every person that does us wrong in life, we will have very hateful lives. That's not a win.

Fsck 'em! Let them live in their immoral pitiful mess. They're pathetic and will more than likely die pathetic.

That's revenge enough.

If OP sees the csnt at spur with his family or something. Well, that's a different story ;)

Eat half your meal, take the leftovers, drop it in front of him and say, "Well I thought after you enjoyed fscking my wife you may want to eat my fscking dinner too.". And leave.
 
Datura said:
That sort of schit can bite you in the ass. Fsck him and his life. Who cares? Walking away from the situation is the only way to heal properly. Dude just needs to tend to his own wounds. If we go around trying to play the revenge card on every person that does us wrong in life, we will have very hateful lives. That's not a win.

Fsck 'em! Let them live in their immoral pitiful mess. They're pathetic and will more than likely die pathetic.

That's revenge enough.

If OP sees the csnt at spur with his family or something. Well, that's a different story ;)
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Well besides the revenge part, I personally think his wife deserves to know the truth and who better to come from than the husband of the cheating wife. From there on it’s their problem. But the wife deserves to know. She’s in fact another innocent party that her life will change forever.
 
Datura said:
That sort of schit can bite you in the ass. Fsck him and his life. Who cares? Walking away from the situation is the only way to heal properly. Dude just needs to tend to his own wounds. If we go around trying to play the revenge card on every person that does us wrong in life, we will have very hateful lives. That's not a win.

Fsck 'em! Let them live in their immoral pitiful mess. They're pathetic and will more than likely die pathetic.

That's revenge enough.

If OP sees the csnt at spur with his family or something. Well, that's a different story ;)

Eat half your meal, take the leftovers, drop it in front of him and say, "Well I thought after you enjoyed fscking my wife you may want to eat my fscking dinner too.". And leave.
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In my case revenge was the only thing on my mind as we lived in a small town so I knew I would see the idiot every day. Got my revenge and then focused on getting my son. Took forever for her to sign the divorce papers as she kept wanting to try to fix the marriage, but I wasn't having any of it.
 
Looney said:
You should at least make sure his wife knows about his affair. Why should he get to keep his life after being complicit in ruining yours (even if you will better for it).
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And what was his wife complicit in that you're willing to ruin their marriage? What if she's battling through something and this news pushes her over the edge? Rather stay out of other people's lives, especially if it's not actually solving anything.
 
saor said:
And what was his wife complicit in that you're willing to ruin their marriage? What if she's battling through something and this news pushes her over the edge? Rather stay out of other people's lives, especially if it's not actually solving anything.
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Then he should have kept his dirty dong out of @James 77 wife . No mercy
 
saor said:
And what was his wife complicit in that you're willing to ruin their marriage? What if she's battling through something and this news pushes her over the edge? Rather stay out of other people's lives, especially if it's not actually solving anything.
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Firstly I didn’t say she was complicit in anything. If you read what I’v said, I said she is innocent.

The marriage is already ruined if he’s lying to her. She deserves to know the truth. Sorry you won’t change my mind on that.

James 77 is not the only one that is going through this. The other wife is too, she just doesn’t know it yet and for her sake, she should know so she can also find peace and move on. Whether she chooses to forgive and move on or toss her cheating husband is her decision. But she should be given that decision. Don’t take that away from her, ever.
 
HunterNW said:
Been there - End of the day it's only you who feels kak. Unless you're the type that gives a schit.
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Yeah, you are probably right. For me this would rip the carpet out from under my feet, revenge won't make you feel better but at least he'll feel just as crap.
Looney said:
Well besides the revenge part, I personally think his wife deserves to know the truth and who better to come from than the husband of the cheating wife. From there on it’s their problem. But the wife deserves to know. She’s in fact another innocent party that her life will change forever.
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Agreed.
saor said:
And what was his wife complicit in that you're willing to ruin their marriage? What if she's battling through something and this news pushes her over the edge? Rather stay out of other people's lives, especially if it's not actually solving anything.
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What if he doesn't say anything and the guy gives his wife an STD, he could potentially prevent that. Who knows who else this skank is sleeping with. She should know.
 
johnjm said:
I’ll probably take a sportsmans bet that the guys wife already knows.
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Also possible. If she does then she has her own life and way forward to figure out. Maybe it was even a 3some, guess we’ll never know the full details.

But. What if she doesn’t know at all.
 
Looney said:
In fact, I would go as far as to say that James 77 has a duty and responsibility to inform the other guys wife that he is having an affair with his wife. It’s the only right thing to do.
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He has a duty to share his new ex's instagram profile is what he has a duty to do.

FFS, priorities folks.
 
Cr4ig said:
I'm really surprised to find you to be the one against retribution. Didn't you also want that when in the same position?
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I wanted it ..... But, i didn't. Long run makes you feel like a better person. It's not always necessary to fight fire with fire.
 
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