Advice on friends, help please.

See its not that bad at all. So you have social skills. Check :)

What about getting out there and get a part time job. You will earn some money on the side line. And trust me you will meet a lot people at work and maybe customers as well.
 
Working is also essential, that is like the best part of my day, I absolutely love my job and to be honest I met the best of people whilst there, that helps a lot.
 
Wow I like the replies!
Yes I am a guy,
I understand the importance of working and I have been in a few part time jobs.
All ended pretty badly with managers making annoying and bad decisions(unforseen its just business sadly).

And you are right
@spyketdog I am making new friends even though its online its better than what I had.
 
Join Dota! Boy oh boy now that is folks with a sense of humor. Its more online, chances of you meeting a real human willing to go grab a drink with you is less than 0.6% but own everybody become God and then people will invite you!

Like a friend of mine PanzerMagnier
 
@Thor187
Dota you say.
The thing is about that is that it is world wide
It wouldn't help if an Asian girl in china knowing how to speek English will try meeting up with me.

Or is it region specific?
If its region specific then no doubt I will play it and yes im a big gamer.:)
 
It is, you can choose what servers to play on.

Dota isnt your answers its just another activity with the potential to meet a online buddy.

My primary suggestion would be sport, gym, work or other hobby.

I found many friend in rugby.
 
My cousin broke his arm in rugby
even though Dota is no solution im always up for a good game with potential benefits.

Gym sounds like more of a solution and I always wanted to do break dancing although my family members are against break dancing but where there is a will there is a way.
 
Broke his arm, fun fun.

I broke my jaw, split my tongue in 2007, broke both my wrists, broke my angle twice, dislocated my shoulder, broke my nose about 4 times hahaha, yea rugby isn't a safe sport.

Althou the jaw was from Maui Tai haha, lovit. I met a few nice life friend during Judo too, basically any physical activity will get you an opportunity to meet peeps
 
Tennis sounds good it was one of my choices in sport when I was still in school.
I just hope there is a public tennis court around here, agg im sure there is.
 
@Thor187
Im very specific when it comes to choosing martial arts.

Im doing shaolin kung fu at the moment but sadly like I said they don't talk to me and they look at me like im some sort of creepy murderer plus this school is more involved in knife combat actually the school feels more like escrima than kung fu.

Im desperately looking for another kung fu school but its not easy all the other kung fu schools I saw are too far.

If you know of any kung fu schools in Gauteng feel free to list them.:)
But that is a different topic all together.

I will take into account all the replies and i will compile a list in order to start the journey to friendship.
 
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@Dark Crow

Be yourself, don't change.
Found out what interests you and join groups/clubs that cater to that.

Friendships generally develop from a common interest you share with others.

Cheers and good luck!
 
Wow there are alot of possibilities there I have a feeling that might help alot Thank you @Nikita_K
And to you aswell @Patrick_Hockstetter :)
 
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