Yes, the ANC leaders in Lusaka, and London, wanted the armed struggle to continue, and yes Mandela began talking to the Apartheid Government while in prison, but those talks were merely to arrange talks between the ANC leadership and the Government, everything was done with the consent of the ANC leadership - in fact they were meeting as well
Thabo Mbeki met with reps of the Govt in Geneva, Trevor Abrahams was his driver
The ANC only abandoned the armed struggle in 1990, after talks with the Govt had been secured, the objectives of the struggle had been reached.
No, I do not want civil war, I have seen civil war and it is horrendous, no whitey is not a thorn in my side, and I do not want whites to be kicked out of the country ( that would not be good )
Yes, there is a large part of the population who are living in abject poverty, and yes that part of the population is growing increasingly restless that not enough is being done to help them out of poverty, and it would be foolish of govt to ignore the problem, hence they have implemented numerous poverty relief programmes, and things like AA.
Show me where any member of Govt. denied that crime is a problem, Mbeki might have said that it is not out of control, but he said it is a serious problem, and Charles Nqakula has said don't just sit and complain, but he admits there is a problem, so where do you get this from
Since you chose to try and paint a picture of me, let me do the same for you, you as I recall left the country just before democracy, prolly scared of the black man, and now that you can see the progress being made in the country, you are desperately trying to justify your move, if only to yourself. It must be hard to see the black man prosper, but in the spirit of Ubuntu, I am sure that you will be welcomed back.
Ubuntu was around forever, just because you didn't hear about it, soes not mean it did not exist