Am I over reacting here?

[supersunbird]

You typed all that crap because someone else gave someone else keys to their residence where you don't even stay???

Off course you are overreacting.

Your dad is free to overreact since he stays there.

 

[smokey]

couldnt agree more

how can you accept the responsibility of marriage when you havent even washed your own dishes

Isn't that the whole point of getting married? New ***** does not do the dishes and does not do the laundry. That's old *****'s job.

 

[TheHiveMind]

When mother in law walks in I'd be like "Oh, you are looking after the place? Here I was thinking I had been assigned this labour. Cool, I have an awful lot of things I'd rather be doing. Seems like I'm off the hook. I'll phone them and let them know. Thx a bunch."

 

[techead]

When mother in law walks in I'd be like "Oh, you are looking after the place? Here I was thinking I had been assigned this labour. Cool, I have an awful lot of things I'd rather be doing. Seems like I'm off the hook. I'll phone them and let them know. Thx a bunch."

or just be like, "oh so they got a maid to come clean the place! awe!"

 

[krycor]

wtf is up with people these days, getting married and not being able to afford their own place!? :wtf:

If you cant afford to have your own place then you shouldnt be gettin married

ffs

Me either. I think its societies 'want it all, want it now' attitude that's filtering in.. which is all fine and dandy but only if you have the means to get what you want.

2ndly(general unrelated to situation described), if you do get married and living with paraents/siblings etc you must remember that in the end you & spouse are not in control of env / life entirely etc so if this is not comfitable before hand, well it really is like they say.. look before you leap, and make sure that bungi cord is tied securely! (not just to you leg, but the other end )

Personally i am more old school.. i prefer to get everything in order prior(with most things in life) even if it can work with support. guts and glory..