Are you single?

mercurial said:
Another misleading cliche IMO. Tried that too, never worked.
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The fact that you said you "tried that too" say's you still cared :p so you were faking it...chicks have a fifteenth sense when it comes to guys faking it :) :p

I don't mean not care as in being bad@ss and saying "whatever man". I mean not care as in just let it ride. Who cares if they don't like you, you will find one somewhere down the line anyway so if this girl who rejects you now doesn't realise the kind of guy you can be for her...not your problem, her loss.

The fact is girls always complain that there is no such thing as a nice guy, or that they will never find one. Yet if they walk into one on the street and knock him over they won't even stop to help him. This is IMO btw ladies :).
 
Finding a girl is no longer my first priority. I think when its always on your mind, its less likely to happen because of the pressure you put on yourself
 
I've just met one now, but shes strange, she tells me shes single and looking for this, but then i do a google search and check on facebook and shes in relationship.
Then she ads me to mxit and her nick is 'sexual seduction'

eish!!! helps to do some research I tell you.
I don't just hook up with any strange CPT chicks, you never know where they've been.
 
Blind dates aren't all bad. I know of two that worked out well.

Also if you can get at least some info about the person from a trusted source before arranging the date then it makes things a little easier. So that it's not entirely a blind date.
 
i dunno been with my g/f coming on 6 years

this is only girl i have ever dated

we fight alot but that makes everything better as nothing ever builds up and explodes :)

there is somebody for everyone trust me on that one

the problem with alot of ppl is they go out looking for love instead of letting love find them :)

ok sitting at home on the couch all the time is not going to help you haha

get out and do things :) then love will find ya
 
The thing that's really ****ing with my mind at the moment is, even though I can be with other women, and know I can go out and find someone else, i'm not really sure if i want to do that.

Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have

Like I said, very confused
 
AcidRaZor said:
The thing that's really ****ing with my mind at the moment is, even though I can be with other women, and know I can go out and find someone else, i'm not really sure if i want to do that.

Even though I want to be a in a relationship, i don't really want to either and I'm not sure If I can commit to feelings I might not have

Like I said, very confused
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Do you have the time? Do you have the money? Does your job interfere with your personal life? Are you keen to do different things and make plans every weekend? Are you willing to work at it?

People say a relationship should not be "work" but it is work. If you have a desire for it then you will love it. Just like if you had a desire for your job then you will love your job.

My first big break up was probably my fault as I was not prepared to work at it enough. Although I had the desire (a lot of desire) my job got in the way and day after day the stress got to me. My thoughts were never on her but rather on my job, I was swearing at traffic more, I was never putting a lot of time aside for her, I was often in a bad mood etc...

Although leaving me instead of talking about it and helping me out shows she was probably not right for me anyway. :/

Still I am trying harder with the new relationship and so far it is working very well :)

Decide if you are ready for the relationship first.

Hey but I'm not a pro, this is just all imo :p
 
Killove said:
haha that is so true. a girl once phoned me out of the blue saying shes seen me at clubs and got my number god knows where..
we were talking and i asked what she looked like and she said a lot of people say she looks like giselle bundchen (however you spell.)

I met her, and she looks like a troll (remember those toys with the hair that smelled nice?) who had a sex change.
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damn,did you use a bag:D
 
Single...but only 18 :p. I've only once tried to get involved in a relationship...didn't get very far because when I asked her for coffee, she never replied to the sms.

Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
 
Dominic Rooney said:
Single...but only 18 :p. I've only once tried to get involved in a relationship...didn't get very far because when I asked her for coffee, she never replied to the sms.

Bothered by being single? A bit but I am in matric so that should be my primary focus. But sometimes I get really bored on weekends...and I think to myself, a girlfriend would be my perfect remedy.
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Maybe she didn't get the sms.
Did u try stalking?
 
yes i have been for a good few months (will be almost a year come august)... did meet someone in CT, that i really adore, she adores me too, but has a b/f, gets invited by her b/f's folks for things like lunch and outings, been going out with this guys for years ... so its quite serious with him ... we were once alone in a hotel room together me and her and did nothing ... too many things going through our minds ... her guy is a good guy, and i aint no dog ... dunno what to do ... cant like anyone else at the moment ... :( ... she said if we did go through with what we intended in that room, she would never have talked to me again, and she doubts it would have just stopped at a kiss ... when i asked

i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too,but when i said i think my feelings are getting stronger she got angry, said im putting pressure on her ... thats was said a few months back

her being in CT and me in joburg also does not help ...

(worst of all im listening to all these soppy songs that touches your heart ... like Lenny kravitz, ill be waiting ... bleeding love by leona lewis )

so thats my sad single story at the moment ...
 
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Hello friends. My name is teraside. I've been single for almost 23 years. I had about 3 or 4 girlfriends in my High School years, but I have not commited to a relationship longer than a month.

I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.

Group hug!! ;) :D :p
 
teraside said:
Hello friends. My name is teraside. I've been single for almost 23 years. I had about 3 or 4 girlfriends in my High School years, but I have not commited to a relationship longer than a month.

I am a renewed bachelor and I am happy to say that I have not been french kissed in more than 4 years, I am happy to call myself a cool guy and everybody's friend.

Group hug!! ;) :D :p
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Sounds like alcoholics anonymous, but yes a group hug for all the single people:o
 
Let it marinate, only call on the weekend if you don't hear anything by then :D
 
Linoman said:
Ah I guess I'll wait until the weekend. Although so far she has not been on mxit and no response to my sms. Last thing she said to me was that I looked kinda nice. (Sent her a pic)
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Why oh why do guys do that? Don't send girls a pic of yourself man, they look for the worst parts in your appearance. Next time, just say you don't have a camera phone or something and show up at the date, she'll be pleasantly surprised ;)
 
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