Blind Date coming up

gdiza said:
I hope shes something to look at...

Friend's don't let friends take ugly girls home!

BARNEYS RULE! :D
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Expect the worst. Bubbly personality means she is a bit porky…. Or not that pretty… Talks a lot…
But go in expecting a dog ugly dumb fat chick…
Then you can be delightfully surprised.

Only went on one…. My sister is not my friend she had me date a dog…. He had black fingernails…..:(
 
My recommendations :

Be yourself, Self-confident,do not stutter or be nervous, try make a conversation get to know her ..

Ask her what job she does, how was work, have any brothers/sister family, try get to know her background. her likes/dislikes/ what she likes doing for fun.

Please do not smoke around her or drink. If she does drink then join do not make bad impression the first time you meet her.

Do not raise your expectations.[Thinking she is H0t model like Jessica Alba]

Remember you going on BLIND Date not a marriage ;)


If she is ugly -- Still at least talk to her..
 
Why not smoke and drink? If you smoke and drink, then smoke and drink, don't try and fool her into thinking you are something that you are not.
 
Man, I would SUCK at this dating thing! I believe you should always be yourself and not try to sell yourself as some heavenly saint unless that's who you really are. If I had to go on a date, I'd drink and smoke like I usually do. Why? Because that's the person she's going to be with if things go well. If you come across as this "holier-than-thou" drip, that's the kind of girl you're going to attract and when you finally reveal your true self, things will turn ugly.
 
Linoman said:
Tis also true that, but personally I would be put off if I met someone and they smoked:confused:

Ironic I know
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And if she smoke? Are you going to sit there with your mouth drooling?

And a glass of wine will loosen up the conversation....
 
Linoman said:
My one friend has organised me a blind date with this girl on Friday night. All that I know about her is that she is a bit older than me, and has a bubbly personality.

This will be my first official blind date, unlike my previous ex who was my one eyed date.

Advice tips etc?
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That's code for: She talks a lot, has weight problems and covers it all up by dressing in mini skirts and low-cut tops.
 
Ask your buddy to give you her contact number and ask her some questions over the telephone.

So you feel a bit more at ease..

Blind dates can be scary --- I just been on one and we clicked ;)

I am very proud of you more son, that you are not going to be a geek :P

Remember No Sex on first date or kissing you can be intimate hold hands etc. If you like her ;)

Are you going to meet at a restaurant ?

brixton tower said:
That's code for: She talks a lot, has weight problems and covers it all up by dressing in mini skirts and low-cut tops.
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Talking a lot is a good sign --- can you not keep the conversation up.
Weight Problems -- you should not judge anyone that can be changes.
Dress code -- Mini skirts are hot you would look if she bend over.
Low-cut tops are good shows cleveage
 
Linoman said:
My one friend has organised me a blind date with this girl on Friday night. All that I know about her is that she is a bit older than me, and has a bubbly personality.

This will be my first official blind date, unlike my previous ex who was my one eyed date.

Advice tips etc?
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bubbly personality = Just let her do most of the talking then, less pressure on u.

Linoman said:
Well we will see, all the details come on friday. Although today I am going to find out as much as possible about her.
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We all will. ;)

RichardG said:
My recommendations :

Be yourself, Self-confident,do not stutter or be nervous, try make a conversation get to know her ..

Ask her what job she does, how was work, have any brothers/sister family, try get to know her background. her likes/dislikes/ what she likes doing for fun.

Please do not smoke around her or drink. If she does drink then join do not make bad impression the first time you meet her.

Do not raise your expectations.[Thinking she is H0t model like Jessica Alba]

Remember you going on BLIND Date not a marriage ;)


If she is ugly -- Still at least talk to her..
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Not bad advice, except don't make it sound like an interview and don't get your hopes up.
It's just another day..
 
Only for drinks? **** that I'd go on for food.

If she really has a bubbly personality then she wouldn't have a problem talking about ****. Just ask some arb question about her and let her talk about herself while you stuff your face with some chicken schnitzel or something.

Blind dates' not a problem for me anymore as I've had one too many. I guess it can be quite daunting to meet someone you haven't talked to before.

Is it a double date type thing? Or is your "buddy" going to leave you hanging?

Remember, sex on the first date is possible. I'd recommend screwing first and asking questions later just because you can then choose which you want, a relationship or sex.

Anyhew.

ask her questions. when she asks you a question start answering it but then turn the answer into a new question for her.

that way she doesn't get to know you at all and you then get to know her a lot.

older chicks rule ;)

I've had 16, 19, 20, 21, 27, 38 and out of them all the 38 year old was the most fun and down to earth one. (Not that any of the younger ones weren't fun, and the 27 year old was a bit psycho, but yea)
 
Linoman said:
Well I asked my buddy but he says I have to wait until Friday:mad:. Was worth a shot though.

Me a geek never, in real life I actually am not. Well wouldn't come across it on a first date;)

No kissing and no on the first date:eek:, lol I am more worried about how awkward things might be. I'll worry about the rest if we click, or we might not.

We are meeting at a restaurant, I think it is only for drinks but have to get all the details from my buddy this evening.
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I would not recommend a restaurant for first date..
I am really sorry..

I would recommend a place that is big and has a variety of restaurants?
Are u meeting her alone or with your friends?


AcidRaZor said:
I've had 16, 19, 20, 21, 27, 38 and out of them all the 38 year old was the most fun and down to earth one. (Not that any of the younger ones weren't fun, and the 27 year old was a bit psycho, but yea)
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Now the saying I heard is true. The older the more experience :P
 
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and by turning the answer into a new question for her I don't mean:

"So what do you do for a living?"
"I suck at blind dates, and what do you do for a living?"


SNORE FEST

"So what do you do for a living?"
"I'm a male stripper, want a show?"
 
Oke i know this is for online dating but it's what your friends tell you when they send you on a blind date to..

I'm a sweetheart" = fat
"Looking for something real" = fat
"Looking for an understanding and compassionate guy" = fat
"curvy in all the right places" = fat
"just trying this out because my friend met a great guy online" = my friend is fat and found someone on here so I'm trying it since I'm also fat.
"I have a great personality once you get to know me" = fat
 
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