It would be interesting to hear how your case pans out actually.
I started with a fair amount of confidence, but as I realized how they easily they can twist the truth to suit them. As I said above they'll simply say requesting any information is allowed. On missing the email, they've made it out to be a super important email that could have brought the company strategy into question and caused major embarrassment to the GM because it was not received on time.
As for victimization, I can't also can't prove that they treated the other staff differently to me. I can't say with backing proof that no one received a warning. Being within te company I KNOW they treat me different - but how do I prove consistency in the discipline or warnings issued?
I have responded to your pm.
Look that employee in my case is going to get nothing - this is after the ER offered her a good settlement at Con and then another settlement pre-Arb.
The problem that employee had was she had a advocate who is drumming in her ears compensation for 12 months, 1 month notice and then another 1 month for something else.
Now she has to pay him for the Con and the Arb and another Arb - our Arb got postponed because the commissioner was taking his sweet time had to do another matter infront of delegates from the UN/ILO.
Bad advice often costs employees - some of the advice in this thread is not good.
Your best bet would probably be to appeal the FWW and say that Misconduct and Negligence are separate matters, but then then again it could be in the same bracket for your disciplinary code. Then write an email to the GM and ask her if she has any issues with you and how can you resolve them, you dont want to lose your job but you are not sure what her expectations are of you.
You have rocked the boat and they have spoken to their labour adviser and now they will probably succeed in getting a dismissal should you not perform your duties in future.
Oh and to prove inconsistency go to your shop steward and ask him/her to find out what warnings other employees have had for similar offenses. If you dont have a shop steward you could ask HR but they will probably say it is confidential.
Dont do anything rash and dont expect huge payouts at the CCMA - your labour lawyer sounds like he/she gave good advice - but if you have to pay them to take it further it may cost you a lot.