Cheating

No wonder they say some men are like dogs,

But then again some woman are bitches
 
chrissy said:
No wonder they say some men are like dogs,

But then again some woman are bitches
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Agree, 100%

Think of a Rottweiller. He has the capability to obliterate his master but does not. If his needs are met, food, shelter,etc he is a happy camper.
 
I haven't cheated. But I am flirtatious. I love women and thank goodness my wife knows it and accepts it!

However, the funny thing is, after getting married (just over 2 years) the flirtation I have experienced with other women is that they are more willing to take things to the next level. A friend of mine agrees with me. He believes it's possible a woman would take it to the next level to test the man's commitment to his wife, and if not, oh well.. I'm on the fence on this.
 
my friend's bf told her the following (when she caught him cheating):

"You're not the only woman in my bed but you are the only woman in my heart."

...not really sure what that means.
 
Means he loves her but wants to screw everything he can.. Somehow, I wouldn't believe that he loves her!
 
the_don46 said:
I haven't cheated. But I am flirtatious. I love women and thank goodness my wife knows it and accepts it!

However, the funny thing is, after getting married (just over 2 years) the flirtation I have experienced with other women is that they are more willing to take things to the next level. A friend of mine agrees with me. He believes it's possible a woman would take it to the next level to test the man's commitment to his wife, and if not, oh well.. I'm on the fence on this.
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Some woman just want to bag a guy if they think he can look after them. The fact that he is married give false pretences that he is stable.

I'm remarried and no way I'm going through divorce and dating stage again. So I just ignore any opportunities, not that they exist.
 
cbrunsdonza said:
Some woman just want to bag a guy if they think he can look after them. The fact that he is married give false pretences that he is stable.

I'm remarried and no way I'm going through divorce and dating stage again. So I just ignore any opportunities, not that they exist.
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I am married, happily I might add and never take of my ring. What I have found over the years is that some women don't really care about the ring. I mean even if you talk about you kids and wife .... they will still flirt with you.

I am not the handsomest of guys, well maybe above average but really I get shocked at (single) women out there. This does not happen to me with married women. They seem to know and respect boundaries.
 
sdd said:
I am married, happily I might add and never take of my ring. What I have found over the years is that some women don't really care about the ring. I mean even if you talk about you kids and wife .... they will still flirt with you.

I am not the handsomest of guys, well maybe above average but really I get shocked at (single) women out there. This does not happen to me with married women. They seem to know and respect boundaries.
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I know some people in the Pick-up artist community. And they have this theory called Social Proof or Pre-Selection.
It basically means that women are more attracted to men who are known to have girlfriends/wifes or are seen with lots of women who fight to keep the guys attention on themselves. It's thought that its an evolved behavior that helps women choose more successful guys by basically going for someone who's been been chosen already. It saves them the effort of taking a change on someone who might be a bad mate.
 
Geriatrix said:
I know some people in the Pick-up artist community.....
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Damn ... the things we learn on the internet. ....

From a guys perspective, I dont get it. When I was single and could mingle, I would NEVER hit on a girl that was spoken for, even if not married.

What you are saying makes sense though .... it is like going to a food court and everyone orders from the busiest take-away joint.
 
papooze said:
They can, it's not impossible.
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No, I don't think so...

They just go back to their old ways, in my opinion, if you really love someone and you know that you might be tempted then best stay away from temptation to avoid hurting your partner.

No excuses! Lay down the rules.
 
sdd said:
I am married, happily I might add and never take of my ring. What I have found over the years is that some women don't really care about the ring. I mean even if you talk about you kids and wife .... they will still flirt with you.

I am not the handsomest of guys, well maybe above average but really I get shocked at (single) women out there. This does not happen to me with married women. They seem to know and respect boundaries.
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What a bunch of lousy women! talk about disgusting behaviour!
 
havent you watched the South Park episode Sexual Healing? its cos of an alien magician..
plus people are bored or want more... oh or their relationships arent working out or the sex isnt good enough
 
sdd said:
I am married, happily I might add and never take of my ring. What I have found over the years is that some women don't really care about the ring. I mean even if you talk about you kids and wife .... they will still flirt with you.

I am not the handsomest of guys, well maybe above average but really I get shocked at (single) women out there. This does not happen to me with married women. They seem to know and respect boundaries.
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Very true. I also don't take of my ring but I've noticed the same. Some chicks get a kick flirting with married men.

Then again, one of my wifes clients admits she has had various affairs with married men. Her statement was that if I guy dose not wear his ring, then he wants to cheat.
 
From an Oprah show, the reason that men cheat was explained as they are taken for granted / don't feel appreciated at home.

The follow don't matter for men to cheat:
  • Amount of sex they get at home;
  • Attractiveness of person they cheat with (in most cases the person was less attractive than their wives);

The following do matter:
  • Level of communication at home (guys need to feel appreciated);
  • Appreciation shown by other women (NOT SEXUAL).

This is not based on one-night-stands, but more a long-term-cheat with one particular person outside of the marriage.
 
AirWolf said:
From an Oprah show, the reason that men cheat was explained as they are taken for granted / don't feel appreciated at home.

The follow don't matter for men to cheat:
  • Amount of sex they get at home;
  • Attractiveness of person they cheat with (in most cases the person was less attractive than their wives);

The following do matter:
  • Level of communication at home (guys need to feel appreciated);
  • Appreciation shown by other women (NOT SEXUAL).

This is not based on one-night-stands, but more a long-term-cheat with one particular person outside of the marriage.
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You take notes while watching Oprah? :)

Michael Moll said it beautifully to his wife, Jacqui, "I will be faithful to you. Not because of who you are, but because of who I am. I am a man of integrity." Our world needs more of those!
 
Why is cheating not a crime.
The way is breaks a man/woman and the way all that feelings filter down to the kids when there is a divorce between parents. It's like it is criminal to these innocent kids and I feel it should be punishable as such.
 
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