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Ockie

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Lol that would have been soooo disturbing.

Why? What is wrong with a 12 year old boy making a hairy beary man stuffed toy with leather chaps and dog collar around his neck? :confused:



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BinaryJack

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Hey OP
Terms like gay, straight and bi are too limiting for human sexuality.
We barely understand what turns us on but we know that it is a combination of factors that are far too nuanced and subjective to be able to "bottle" it.

By labeling yourself as one of the three and even introducing a simplified Kinsey scale to your attraction; you need to realise that you, as a human being, with all the wondrous physical and psychological complexities can not conform to something that simplistic.

Just accept it as a quirk of your nature, like freckles or having brown hair or a larger than normal penis.
It is not a good thing and its not a bad thing, it is just a thing.
 
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padjakkels

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Hey Human,

I agree 100% with you. My brain is working analytically, so that's why I try to pin point this feeling, can't help to do it in some way of measurement.

It is not a bad thing, but one have to work through it, first yourself and then 'convince' the people around you that you are happy with yourself the way you are, and they must accept you. If they don't accept you, then they must get out of your life. But just to see it as a thing, I don't agree, because it can make or break you.... depends how you react on it.
 

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Hey Human,

I agree 100% with you. My brain is working analytically, so that's why I try to pin point this feeling, can't help to do it in some way of measurement.

It is not a bad thing, but one have to work through it, first yourself and then 'convince' the people around you that you are happy with yourself the way you are, and they must accept you. If they don't accept you, then they must get out of your life. But just to see it as a thing, I don't agree, because it can make or break you.... depends how you react on it.

Ja ja ja ja ja. What ev's.

Enige nuus aan jou kant? :D :p
 

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Hey Human,

I agree 100% with you. My brain is working analytically, so that's why I try to pin point this feeling, can't help to do it in some way of measurement.

It is not a bad thing, but one have to work through it, first yourself and then 'convince' the people around you that you are happy with yourself the way you are, and they must accept you. If they don't accept you, then they must get out of your life. But just to see it as a thing, I don't agree, because it can make or break you.... depends how you react on it.

By equating it to something as natural and "normal" as having brown hair or freckles you reduce it to it's base form, being as natural and "normal" as having brown hair or freckles.
Most of the tension that is developed with our sexual preferences and sexual proclivities are due to the fact that society and through that peer pressure, we tend to make it so much more than what it is. We ascribe morals and ethics to our sexual interactions that are in most cases, completely irrelevant.
Our sexual morals are dictated by the prudish, bigoted and petty minorities of church and state.

Not too long ago homosexuality was accepted as a disorder, it is still illegal in some countries and seen as an abboration of nature even though there are a number of species that depict same sex behavior.
I digress. :eek:

In short, you are who you are, brown hair, freckles, larger than normal cock and your taste for men and women.
Live with it, enjoy it. :D
 

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In short, you are who you are, brown hair, freckles, larger than normal cock and your taste for men and women.
Live with it, enjoy it. :D

You just like saying that, or you know something about padjakkels we dont? It is considered very rude to keep that kind of info from your fellow gay's! :mad:
 

padjakkels

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By equating it to something as natural and "normal" as having brown hair or freckles you reduce it to it's base form, being as natural and "normal" as having brown hair or freckles.
Most of the tension that is developed with our sexual preferences and sexual proclivities are due to the fact that society and through that peer pressure, we tend to make it so much more than what it is. We ascribe morals and ethics to our sexual interactions that are in most cases, completely irrelevant.
Our sexual morals are dictated by the prudish, bigoted and petty minorities of church and state.

Not too long ago homosexuality was accepted as a disorder, it is still illegal in some countries and seen as an abboration of nature even though there are a number of species that depict same sex behavior.
I digress. :eek:

In short, you are who you are, brown hair, freckles, larger than normal cock and your taste for men and women.
Live with it, enjoy it. :D
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Vandag is sommer net een van daai k@k dae. Hopelik niks wat 'n goeie naai nie sal regmaak nie.
 

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:D
Dit is somtyds die beste raad.
Kry 'n steek, se dankie en stap weg.

Die man het 'n boyfriend. Durf hy om weg te stap na 'n goeie naai en hy kan vergeet van ontbyt in die oggend :D
 

Zewp

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Hey, why are you letting TGay almost fall to the second page?

Anyway, have a good weekend you poofs.
 

Ockie

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Hey, why are you letting TGay almost fall to the second page?

Anyway, have a good weekend you poofs.

You know how homo's are. Dont have the attention span to stick with anything. We can be debating the origin of live and the meaning thereof until a hot piece of man meat walks past and then you lost us completely. :D
 
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