Crossroads, advice needed

requiem said:
:P

So ye, think it is time to do what you have all been advising for ages. Going to send the girl some flowers, and put it out there.

Worst possible outcome is she tells me to ****off, not much worse than where I've been
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It's sad to be you. You sound apologetic.
All you need is talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk to you, then she can soad.
 
The flowers are to simply tell her i'm thinking of her, and to ask her out to dinner.

Sort of an ice breaker.
 
requiem said:
:P

So ye, think it is time to do what you have all been advising for ages. Going to send the girl some flowers, and put it out there.

Worst possible outcome is she tells me to ****off, not much worse than where I've been
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I think the flowers is a good idea.
So you probably shouldn't do it.
 
NOw the question... what to put on the card :) (seriously, suggestions here would help a great deal
 
Just say that you have been thinking of her, just be you, don't try too be to fancy.
 
I also think he should just go over there. What happened to you picking her up after class?
 
She was supposed to let me know when she was done. She never did.

Now it seems where I stand, due to inaction on my side, or fear on hers, i've already started losing my friendship with her,nevermind anything else.
 
cerebus said:
Isn't it better to just drive up and see her face to face?
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phoneJunky said:
I also think he should just go over there. What happened to you picking her up after class?
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He will shyt his pants if he drives there. The guy is shyt scared of his future ex-wife.
So flowers could be the ice breaker - so he calls it.

I hope this woman is not starting to feel that this guy doesn't have what it takes. Women don't don't like that in men.
 
She is not going to let you know when she is done, just go over to her place and wait with a bunch of flowers in your hand.
 
requiem said:
She was supposed to let me know when she was done. She never did.

Now it seems where I stand, due to inaction on my side, or fear on hers, i've already started losing my friendship with her,nevermind anything else.
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Eish! I missed that episode. :(

Maybe the final face to face onslaught is the way to go.

Or die wondering
 
well that is what it boils down to. The game has started and now something needs to be done.

Trying to arrange to see her has been unsucessful. SO I was thinking the flowers, if she ignores that, maybe its time to walk away.

Its a tough one guys, thanks again for all the wise words :)
 
requiem said:
well that is what it boils down to. The game has started and now something needs to be done.

Trying to arrange to see her has been unsucessful. SO I was thinking the flowers, if she ignores that, maybe its time to walk away.

Its a tough one guys, thanks again for all the wise words :)
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She's done the ignoring thing already, sending flowers will not change that.
 
requiem said:
I suppose you right alf. do I just walk away
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No, you cannot just walk away. The game has started and the pieces are moving. I promise you, if you just let it be now you will always have that "what if" question eating away at you. Tackle this situation head on. Whichever way it goes, good or bad, you will have an answer and not a "what if"...
 
She feels stupid and rejected and that's why she ignores you.

If you really love her - just do it.
 
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