Dating . . . after the break up!

Wezzy777 said:
It did, made me realise that your ex is not God's gift to man. :)
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I now see mine as some other poor bastard's problem. Somehow brings a smile to my face. Kind of like if you're at a park and you step on some dogschit, you clean yourself off, watch the pile, and piss yourself when some other poor sod steps on it.
 
I watched far too much of "SimplePickup" on youtube. Yeah they're trying to sell some program at the end of the day but the vids are hilarious and they aren't pushy with their product. The vids are quite a confidence booster but unfortunately I'm married.
 
Wezzy777 said:
Will try it, I think perhaps I should make a list of all the things that irratated me so whenever I put her on that pedestal I can read through the list, hopefully it will make me feel better.
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Wezzy777 said:
I wake up in the morning and the first thing I think about is her, you know that saying "Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."

It has only been 3 day's, I'm sure it will get easier but at the moment she is all I think about.
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Do whatever you can to get your mind off things, but ultimately the only thing that's going to work is the passage of time.

abandonallhope said:
Yeah, rule nr1 :

Take dating advice from a place like myBB for what it is.
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This is a silly thing to say, which comes up in almost every dating thread, and seriously needs to be put to rest. People here are for the most part like minded. You are going to get a lot better advice than you would from a different social group, because what works for a meat head with zero tech delight will not work with a lot of people here. Our minds are wired differently. And as many people here have had both successful and unsuccessful relationships, we are more equipped to offer practical guidance from our own personal experiences. Unless you follow the hollywood portrayal of relationships as being exclusive to one small segment of the population, while the rest of us are picking up the crumbs and playing house.
 
Lament said:
Also single now for ± 2 months after a 3 year relationship

My problem is where am i supposed to meet girls?
My friends don’t have any single woman friends, at 29 im a little old for clubs and also not very fond of the girls hanging out in those places, there are no real decent dating sites in SA so in don’t know

I don’t believe im the only one facing this problem, unless you guys know something i don’t ;-)

NB, thanks for the advice OP
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Wezzy777 said:
For me that's the hardest things about being alone, not waking up next to someone.
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Well you could still sneak into a lovely lady's house and sleep next to her, just make sure you wake up first or else things could get awkward.
 
rorz0r said:
I watched far too much of "SimplePickup" on youtube. Yeah they're trying to sell some program at the end of the day but the vids are hilarious and they aren't pushy with their product. The vids are quite a confidence booster but unfortunately I'm married.
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Been watching these too and the guys are really good at what they do. Tips on their channel help tons so you don't really have to buy the product. Recommended to all the guys that have trouble approaching women.
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
I now see mine as some other poor bastard's problem. Somehow brings a smile to my face. Kind of like if you're at a park and you step on some dogschit, you clean yourself off, watch the pile, and piss yourself when some other poor sod steps on it.
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+1
Classic!!
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
I now see mine as some other poor bastard's problem. Somehow brings a smile to my face. Kind of like if you're at a park and you step on some dogschit, you clean yourself off, watch the pile, and piss yourself when some other poor sod steps on it.
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:D
 
How you feeling Wezzy?

Just broke up with my ex yesterday after almost 6 and a half years... Over a quarter of my life...

Its tough moving on, especially when you're a shy introverted nerd...

Oh well I guess we'll get there eventually...
 
evovil said:
How you feeling Wezzy?

Just broke up with my ex yesterday after almost 6 and a half years... Over a quarter of my life...

Its tough moving on, especially when you're a shy introverted nerd...

Oh well I guess we'll get there eventually...
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6 1/2 years dude! What happened? She break it off?
 
evovil said:
How you feeling Wezzy?

Just broke up with my ex yesterday after almost 6 and a half years... Over a quarter of my life...

Its tough moving on, especially when you're a shy introverted nerd...

Oh well I guess we'll get there eventually...
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Great, letting another girl with baggage loose. You should have just married her and spared everyone else. Selfish.
 
RazedInBlack said:
6 1/2 years dude! What happened? She break it off?
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Had been **** for the past couple of months and things just weren't working out anymore... Was pretty much a mutual thing...

abzo said:
Great, letting another girl with baggage loose. You should have just married her and spared everyone else. Selfish.
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Haha deepest apologies... Be prepared for quite a few lies... :mad:
 
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