Did I just get rejected?

[SoloMid]

"Date" do people still do that?

 

[OGroteKoning]

"Date" do people still do that?

Yes, once you manage to dislodge yourself from the PC, schit, shave, shower, shampoo and get dressed... There is a whole real world out there!

 

[Nick333]

Yes, once you manage to dislodge yourself from the PC, schit, shave, shower, shampoo and get dressed... There is a while real world out there!

 

[thestaggy]

She put the ball in your court by indicating she would be willing to meet up, you've returned serve by asking her to meet up. The ball is in her court as she now has to say yes or no to your invitation. All I would say is don't dwell on it and wait for a response. If no response or the answer is a ''No'' I'd personally move on and leave it as a simple work relationship or whatever it is.

 

[Replay]

Long story short: Woman tells me that we should get together some time.

Chick commits

A week or so later I tell woman that I'd like to take her up on her offer to meet and ask if she is free this weekend.

Horny guy commits

Woman says she is busy Friday but will let me know about Saturday. Woman then immediately says that she lives far though, emphasising the point about living far.

This is a test. What she's asking is....can you go the distance? Can you take the leap and stay over?

Why did woman emphasise the fact that she lives far? Why say we should meet then raise the issue of travel distance?

Over analyzing simple scenario

I am an awkward panda when it comes to woman, so I am not very good at reading them.

Any man able to read a woman is gay...

 

[Jakkels1991]

simple... She wants the D

 

[Electric]

simple... She wants the D

Up the bum no babies
piihb clause

 

[RogerWilcoZA]

she couldn't be more clearer if she was wearing this badge

Enjoy buddy!

 

[sk33Lo]

Come on dude... FHRITP

 

[Ninja'd]

OP thinks too much. Here's my story

Was at Pick n Pay lunchtime. Cute cashier asks me when am I gonna get a smart shopper card cause she always sees me there. I tell I don't care about it. She says if I take the card she'll give me her phone number. I agree, she gives the digits.


So now that I have her number I'll contact her to see if she has anything going on this weekend. Or maybe this was an eloborate ruse she used just so I card take the card. Does PnP pay cashiers extra if they sign up customers?

Am I overthinking things?

 

[ShaunSA]

OP thinks too much. Here's my story

Was at Pick n Pay lunchtime. Cute cashier asks me when am I gonna get a smart shopper card cause she always sees me there. I tell I don't care about it. She says if I take the card she'll give me her phone number. I agree, she gives the digits.


So now that I have her number I'll contact her to see if she has anything going on this weekend. Or maybe this was an eloborate ruse she used just so I card take the card. Does PnP pay cashiers extra if they sign up customers?

Am I overthinking things?

Well if she was cute I highly doubt she would have been interested in you if that's what you're asking

 

[Nick333]

Performance bonus must be linked to sign ups.

 

[Nick333]

Either way she sounds desperate.

 

[Electric]

I highly doubt she was cute if she was a PnP cashier.

 

[ShaunSA]

Either way she sounds desperate.

For a performance bonus or for a performance with Ninja'd'?

 

[Electric]

For a performance bonus or for a performance with Ninja'd'?

Human interaction of any kind it seems.

 

[Ninja'd]

I highly doubt she was cute if she was a PnP cashier.

Maybe I should go back to shopping at Spar.

 

[scudsucker]

I highly doubt she was cute if she was a PnP cashier.

Desperate people have different standards.

 

[semaphore]

She has a penis.

 

[Ninja'd]

Ok the number is up on Whatsapp and guess what? She has a bible verse as her profile pic.

WHY?!