Feeling like a failure?

Yes, some of them do. I work for one of the big players in education and if you teach maths, science or IT that's what they pay.

I'm not a teacher anymore but in educational management now and earn 2.5 times the OP's salary. There are many options in education.



Really? I'm a fairly old CA but do not earn that p.m. Ok, this excludes bonus, but I can only think you in government or in some sort of backwater golden pool of grants.
 
Yes, some of them do. I work for one of the big players in education and if you teach maths, science or IT that's what they pay.

I'm not a teacher anymore but in educational management now and earn 2.5 times the OP's salary. There are many options in education.

I am intrigued to hear where you work. All ears.
 
Really? I'm a fairly old CA but do not earn that p.m. Ok, this excludes bonus, but I can only think you in government or in some sort of backwater golden pool of grants.

Would like to know how old fairly old is and what sector you work in being a CA? Seems like CA job salaries are very much about connections as many job offers pay weak asking for a CA with 5 uears experience. I know CA is a good qualification but sometimes wonder if its worth all the flippen hard work. Keep falling further and further behind hoping to catch up once I make it.
 
Would like to know how old fairly old is and what sector you work in being a CA? Seems like CA job salaries are very much about connections as many job offers pay weak asking for a CA with 5 uears experience. I know CA is a good qualification but sometimes wonder if its worth all the flippen hard work. Keep falling further and further behind hoping to catch up once I make it.

The qualification does open doors - but it does not mean you will walk into a high paying FM job. Then again, some new CA might get a new job earning the same or more than I am right now - but it is also about the relative earning power over the years. I would not be able to afford my house, my rental flat and my car right now without the accumulation of wealth and lower costs back then of the capital items I purchased.

But what do you mean about the "flippen hard work"?
 
Thank you, obviously few seem to be able to sympathize / empathize with my situation and or emotions in this regard. My plan for now is work harder and start studying again even if it is only self-study just to get the "ball rolling" so to speak.

Well, CPD is an acronym for Continuing Professional Development in the CA world. So maybe CDP is just a twist on that? But yes, work harder, or maybe suck harder :)
 
The qualification does open doors - but it does not mean you will walk into a high paying FM job. Then again, some new CA might get a new job earning the same or more than I am right now - but it is also about the relative earning power over the years. I would not be able to afford my house, my rental flat and my car right now without the accumulation of wealth and lower costs back then of the capital items I purchased.

But what do you mean about the "flippen hard work"?

Getting there is hard work - getting CA. Well the way I chose to do it. Studying while doing articles and CTA after that. Finished articles in 2010 and only did my Board1 this year. Yes, I know. Took 5 years for CTA.
 
Nope. If you feel like a failure because you are in the top 1% of global wealth at age 32 then the problem is with your thinking. Your unhappiness is entirely due to your warped context. So all I am saying is reframe your context and appreciate the abundance you do have. That is not to say you should be apathetic about your achievements, and in fact a greater awareness of your place in the grand scheme of things and being grateful for what you have tends to lead to even greater prosperity.

No it doesn't. Next time you feel down or a tragedy happens, I hope someone tries this BS on you to see how you like it. A loved one dies? Well **** you for feeling bad, some guy in Vanuatu lost his whole family so your feelings are invalid. Or maybe you're one of the lucky ones that never get bothered by anything, I know nothing about you.

It's pretty well known that tactics like yours (misinterpreting statistics, telling the person they have nothing to feel bad about, shaming them for being depressed when others are also suffering or suffering worse etc) only make the depressed person feel even worse and ashamed because there must be something wrong with them.

Besides, as I said and you conveniently ignored, if you make "the grand scheme of things" grand enough, any conclusions you derive become meaningless. Such as comparing yourself to billions of 3rd-world subsistence farmers. According to your thinking, since something like 90% of the universe is made up of hydrogen gas, there's something seriously wrong with your body because it's not 90% hydrogen gas. We don't live in outer space among the stars, we live in a very special (from our perspective) part of the universe. OP doesn't live in rural China or South Sudan, he lives and works in a specific area and society on the planet. Comparing him to those places and telling him there's something wrong with him isn't helping and makes you look like a bit like the people who tell anorexics to "lol just eat something".
 
I'll divulge more than I would like but here goes...

I'm in higher education
I have post-graduate qualifications
I'm a Dean of a Faculty

That's not exactly the same thing as a schoolteacher though, is it? Not by a long margin.
 
I'll divulge more than I would like but here goes...

I'm in higher education
I have post-graduate qualifications
I'm a Dean of a Faculty

That's not exactly the same thing as a schoolteacher though, is it? Not by a long margin.
 
That's not exactly the same thing as a schoolteacher though, is it? Not by a long margin.

No it isn't, but my point was you can start off as a teacher and with some further study and a little ambition you don't have to continue earning peanuts for the rest of your life. There are other options.

I started off my career teaching.
 
Hi.

I seem to be experiencing some depression the last couple of months regarding my career or more importantly my income vs. my age status. I am a system admin at a mining company, am 32 years old and earn a gross monthly salary of R32000. The majority of my friends, all in different industries, earn more (and some much more) than me and they are either my age or younger.

This makes me doubt my future and career choice and I am feeling as if though I am a failure. I was wondering (hoping) whether there are some of you who have also experienced these thoughts / emotions and how you dealt with it. I know I should not compare myself to others but it is frustrating to see them being able to afford a house, children, new cars etc. and I am battling to make ends meet.

Any advice will be appreciated and I apologize for the depressing topic.

This mother f...
Reminds me of some dude who used to go to the squatter camps and buy alcohol for his "friends". Thered be a back to back marathon of a series focused on his life and how crap it is amidst folk who have to go get water in buckets from a central spot making their way around his lavish vehicle.
 
Really? I'm a fairly old CA but do not earn that p.m. Ok, this excludes bonus, but I can only think you in government or in some sort of backwater golden pool of grants.
Why? I'm not old nor a CA and I don't earn much less than that... Being a CA is hardly the be all and end all of high salary jobs.
 
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This mother f...
Reminds me of some dude who used to go to the squatter camps and buy alcohol for his "friends". Thered be a back to back marathon of a series focused on his life and how crap it is amidst folk who have to go get water in buckets from a central spot making their way around his lavish vehicle.

Eks! Eeekkkkksss!
 
This mother f...
Reminds me of some dude who used to go to the squatter camps and buy alcohol for his "friends". Thered be a back to back marathon of a series focused on his life and how crap it is amidst folk who have to go get water in buckets from a central spot making their way around his lavish vehicle.

Ok sorry perhaps I was a bit harsh. I understand that you have great goals and such and that envy and jealousy is part of the human condition that motivates us to move forward and survive etc. Its survival instinct with regards to social psychology. So I guess its natural.
Please bro, be grateful and say thank you once in a while to whatever God you serve. No matter what you have theres always someone with a hundred times less. Consider what you have and then consider losing the closest person you have. Then consider there are those who have lost everyone and everything in one fell swoop.
Be grateful.
 
I don't work in government or have any involvement in grants/tenders...I work for a listed company, corporate environment and put in many hours and hard graft. I don't sit and whine about a dead end job either. You can either be a teacher for the rest of your life or get off your butt, study further and work your way into a more profitable career. The problem with teaching is that it is comfy. No big decisions, no dealing with budgets/money, lots of leave, repetitive work and some kiddie sports. Sure it's a pain dealing with brats and their parents but it's not a stressful career.
Oh no you didn't... Prepare yourself for all the teachers and their significant others to tell you how stressful the job is, what long hours they work, how they don't really have that much leave, etc.
 
Oh no you didn't... Prepare yourself for all the teachers and their significant others to tell you how stressful the job is, what long hours they work, how they don't really have that much leave, etc.

:) They have no form of reference. I've been both sides and being a teacher was much less stressful...and you really miss those holidays when you don't have them anymore.
 

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