Getting over a romantic heartbreak

[Corelli]

45 (is that old?), full set of pepper hair, single again (last relationship, before this recent one, was in 2019).

45 is the new 25.

Face it I know many a 60s guy with a hot 20 something asian wife. And i mean hottttttttttt. Makes girls here look like amateurs.

 

[LCBXX]

It will pass @supersunbird.

You'll look back on it and wonder how you ever wasted your time like that.

 

[I.am.Sam]

How does one get over a romantic heartbreak?

Very recently got dumped (after about 3 months together, I thought things were going well), very painful (in my chest) and sad. Last time my heart was broken was 2012 but it wasn't nearly this bad, the other 2 relationships over the intervening years didn't end in heartbreak. My sleep is all messed up, I do not want to work, food is off little interest beyond having to force myself because my stomach is complaining.

So to the people with more experience in these things, how does one deal with it?

after 3 months

dafuq

grow some balls

 

[ShaunSA]

45 (is that old?), full set of pepper hair, single again (last relationship, before this recent one, was in 2019).

How old was the chick?

45 is the new 25.

Face it I know many a 60s guy with a hot 20 something asian wife. And i mean hottttttttttt. Makes girls here look like amateurs.

It's amazing what money will buy

 

[I.am.Sam]

post some pics of 3 month gf

want to see if the heartbreak was worth it

 

[DapperDanMan]

So to the people with more experience in these things, how does one deal with it?

Dink net, sy het jou gespaar van die ellende wat De Allende nou gaan deurgaan ...

 

[supersunbird]

How old was the chick?

43

 

[supersunbird]

after 3 months

dafuq

grow some balls

Hey, I didn't even realise how deep I had fallen until she left me. Not normal for this type of thing to happen to me.

 

[NarrowBandFtw]

quite common to see or hear advice like "get right back on the horse", meaning dust yourself off and fall in love with the next girl

that's nonsense though, people mishear the true advice which is: "get right back on the whores", meaning rather than pay for romance and hoping for sex, pay for sex and forget romance for a good long while

 

[Craig_]

45 is the new 25.

Face it I know many a 60s guy with a hot 20 something asian wife. And i mean hottttttttttt. Makes girls here look like amateurs.

I'm not even close to 60 and I can't think of anything worst than a 20 yo gf. Eventually when you're over the sex you have to talk to this girl, about what exactly? And having to deal with the energy of a 20 year old in your 40's? No way.

 

[supersunbird]

that's nonsense though, people mishear the true advice which is: "get right back on the whores", meaning rather than pay for romance and hoping for sex, pay for sex and forget romance for a good long while

Yeah no, that stuff is not really satisfying.

 

[ShaunSA]

43

At that age they're normally desperate to land a man. Wtf did you do to mess it up?

 

[SAguy]

45 is the new 25.

Face it I know many a 60s guy with a hot 20 something asian wife. And i mean hottttttttttt. Makes girls here look like amateurs.

ja but we all know that once an asian wife hits 30 she'll immediately look 73

 

[supersunbird]

I'm not even close to 60 and I can't think of anything worst than a 20 you gf. Eventually when you're over the sex you have to talk to this girl, about what exactly? And having to deal with the energy of a 20 year old in your 40's? No way.

So very true. maybe in ones earl to mid 30s, but in ones 40s... nah.

 

[TheMightyQuin]

It will pass @supersunbird.

You'll look back on it and wonder how you ever wasted our time like that.

FIFY

 

[NarrowBandFtw]

Yeah no, that stuff is not really unsatisfying.

double negative? so it is satisfying?

is it almost, but not quite, entirely unlike tea?

 

[backstreetboy]

Chin up. We all die alone anyway.

 

[TheMightyQuin]

#MyAgonyAuntBand

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

Yeah no, that stuff is not really unsatisfying.

Get your testosterone levels checked, you may be turning into a chic...

 

[epah]

45 is not old? You straights have it so easy.

Trying being gay and over 30. Everyone thinks you should be living in an assisted old age home.